if i suggest something, dont rage or ignore everyone.

Very Hard Engage··3 votes·476 views

i cant tell what you're thinking.

you have to tell me explicitly.

its fine to disagree with what i suggest.

I really do want to know what you want to do, maybe we can do it together.

my words and ideas are not made of gold, neither are yours.

If you want to do something tell us so we can play accordingly.

were not out to invalidate you, we just have an idea of what should happen, you ignoring us kills that idea.

id rather find out what you were thinking before that big old red "defeat" screen.

lets not squabble, lets work together.

its fine if you dont have an idea to share, but if we share and you remain silent we do expect you read it and will give it a go.


but if your team suggests something and you remain silent, you dont do it, and it results in a loss, i really do believe you were the issue and the game was winnable up until the point you started ignoring your team mates.

you can tell me what to do just as much as i do, its cool if you dont know what you're supposed to do, we can help you, you just have to communicate with us, not shut us out.

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Maximum Morde3 votes

/muted

SchmidttyGames2 votes

I'll never understand why people go off the deep end when someone gives them good benign advice like "Play it safe." or "Wait for us to help you.", or even "Keep calm and farm it up."

I've come to the conclusion that most people who go ballistic during a game over nothing have internal problems we simply can't solve for them, and muting them is the only answer most of time.

Very Hard Engage1 votes

they're tilted and cant think. it really is that simple. they see anything other than "good job" as more upsetting material and it just has to go away immediately.

thats all it is, muting makes them feel better, regardless of what you said.

Maximum Morde1 votes

Generic statements like Play Safe are an insult tbh. It implies that you think I'm too stupid to realize it. It's like, no shit Captain Obvious.

It's a passive aggressive version of stop feeding.

SchmidttyGames1 votes

If "Play it safe" is an insult to you, you lack the mental fortitude to compete with other human beings. It's not a passive aggressive anything. It's someone telling you outright to play safer to minimize the threat of their opponent snowballing. If you are to stubborn to realize that, then you have issues beyond the game that no one can help.

What you just gave me was an excuse to be toxic. There is no excuse to be toxic.

D3M4L1S1 votes

There is no I in team.

Your post tl;dr. But yeah it takes more than one mistake to lose a match, like doing baron while the other team is still alive(unless they are cleaning up inhib knockdowns). Blamming the weakest link is hardly a solution, most times they are getting outplayed.

I just left a match playing sorraka, every team fight I was the first to die does not matter where I was ryse would warp in kill me, and you know that was my fault. I am so tired of people blamming me for things I have no control over. Play the game accept that you will not win every game no matter how bad you want to.

And please stop spreading the it's your fault toxicity. Play the game have fun, and think about the other team, give them credit for being good. Because everything isn't allways the fault of your teammates, negativity is not a good motivator if you didn't know.

Very Hard Engage1 votes

losing because the enemy team had a lead or made better calls, thats ok.

losing because we couldn't agree on anything, thats not ok and was a large contributing factor to the loss. we stand a much better chance doing something together.

im trying to give advice which gets players to group up and work together instead of blowing each other off because its outside of their safe space.

D3M4L1S1 votes

But sometimes that advice is contradictory to thier playstle, and could quite possibly tilt them if they change up. I know what you're saying and I truly believe that teamwork is paramount, but suggest it and move on don't spend the rest of the game in chat blamming them for not listening.

I don't care how fast you can type, it is taking away attention to the game to type all the hate. Especially if the reason you're suggesting has no relevance to the fact that the other team has a better strategy.

Just saying.

Very Hard Engage1 votes

the difference being im suggesting, not typing paragraphs or raging like you say.

if doing literally anything other than tryndamere top, never leave lane, ignore all, is what you planned going in and that was the only thing you were going to do. you just let your 4 team mates down. excuse me, 4 slaves down.

its just one liners - "need ____ to hook jinx so we can win a team fight" "guys lets baron" "back off they're coming for you" - my fav, you dont read chat, you ignored danger pings and the text warnings that they were coming for you, you died horribly alone, out of position, without a chance, you burned both sums anyway for no reason and just died 1v5. then looked at your team mates wtf guys, why did you let me die. "fiora just tower farm, let him free farm"

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