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Why remove my comments for "harassment and insults"?

General Esdeath ··44 votes·17,134 views

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If this qualifies as harassment and insults then I'd rather have some new mods here. Quoting someone isn't harassment, asking a question to verify if we're talking about the same person is not an insult. You wanna know what's harassment? If I followed this person via their profile to insult them on every comment/post they made. Wanna know what's an insult? If I said something like "You don't even play League because you're shit at this game", which I wouldn't do, but apparently this is just as bad 🤷‍♂️ not gonna name anyone, mod or poster, but I think it's time someone reevaluates some of the mods and how they handle some of the posters on here.

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ModThe Djinn28 votes

From the context it's pretty clear that you're basically playing a game of "let's call out a specific boards member without saying their name" with another poster, which isn't something that is really okay here.

The Naming & Shaming rule doesn't actually require you to name a specific person, and using other identifiers in an attempt to identify a single person for negative purposes falls into the category of naming/shaming.

I'm not sure I'd have called this harassment personally (I'd probably have cited the Naming & Shaming rule), but I can't say I think the removal was incorrect.

XxXGwanXxX54 votes

The Naming & Shaming rule doesn't actually require you to name a specific person

That sounds like a sentence straight out of 1984. There is a reason it's called NAME and shame. Because you have to NAME someone or something to actually shame it.

ModThe Djinn18 votes

{quoted}There is a reason it's called NAME and shame.

There is, yes. As the person who wrote the updated rules, we kept it called that because it's clear in the majority of circumstances and takes less time to write than "Identifying an individual in any manner intended to shame them for their posting habits, gameplay habits, or other behavioral actions." The text of the rule itself makes no mention of an actual name being required -- if you called me, for example, "that Herald who posts on Discuss the Boards all the time" in a post intended to shame me that would be a violation of the rules.

Pika Fox5 votes

{quoted}

That sounds like a sentence straight out of 1984. There is a reason it's called NAME and shame. Because you have to NAME someone or something to actually shame it.

Not necessarily, as any identifier could be considered naming. It would definitely be a roundabout usage of the rule, but cant say its not exactly invalid. This is why when you remove content and list the rule, it should include WHY, because a rule does not stand on its own. If you cannot defend the usage of a rule or law, then it should not be used.

Modl Ryden l15 votes

From what it looks like, it's more like 'Guess Who then Shame' which is actually resorting to the same thing as 'Naming and Shaming'. It does not matter who you conclude who the person in question is after back and forth attempts to name an unknown, you still come to a conclusion to find one and only one player to target with shaming. They might not be the same person in the minds involved with the discussion you still bring upon a type of 'witch hunt' that tries to find and harass someone with shame.

Trist mid opop3 votes

{quoted}

That sounds like a sentence straight out of 1984. There is a reason it's called NAME and shame. Because you have to NAME someone or something to actually shame it.

If i were to write: ”the guy that wrote this is an idiot”. It wouldnt count as naming? Good to know. (I dont mean u are an idiot, i just took it for example. Please dont remove this mods)

ModThe Djinn6 votes

[{quoted}](name=Trist mid opop,realm=EUW,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=000000000003,timestamp=2019-10-25T12:33:24.925+0000)If i were to write: ”the guy that wrote this is an idiot”. It wouldnt count as naming? Good to know.

That would count as an insult, and a direct one.

If, on another post, you were to write something like this, it would fall under the shaming rule:

That one poster who wrote If i were to write: ”the guy that wrote this is an idiot”. It wouldnt count as naming? Good to know. is an [insult here].

Omg why Teemo1 votes

It is still not direct. It is in fact indirect.

AirKingNeo6 votes

Good thing Issac Asimov thinks 1984 is horseshit.

Implying someone's name is just the same as saying it, without saying it. People will catch on and understand what you mean.

Hammermancer30 votes

[{quoted}](name=The Djinn,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=0000,timestamp=2019-10-24T20:34:25.793+0000)

From the context it's pretty clear that you're basically playing a game of "let's call out a specific boards member without saying their name" with another poster, which isn't something that is really okay here.

The Naming & Shaming rule doesn't actually require you to name a specific person, and using other identifiers in an attempt to identify a single person for negative purposes falls into the category of naming/shaming.

I'm not sure I'd have called this harassment personally (I'd probably have cited the Naming & Shaming rule), but I can't say I think the removal was incorrect.

Annnd this is why so many people have little to no faith in the ability of your mod team nor the consistency or clarity of your rules

that wasn't an insult, that's clarification, people tend to find the rules to be ambiguous in general, which if i remember correctly is actually a strategy in contract law in order to always hold the upper hand.

Funny thing is it's nto like this company actually believes in these rules, they just posture them for PR reasons even though most people find them to be annoying.

Harassment is continuous by the way. not single use, so it's neither named nor harassment.

ModThe Djinn23 votes

{quoted}that wasn't an insult, that's clarification, people tend to find the rules to be ambiguous in general, which if i remember correctly is actually a strategy in contract law in order to always hold the upper hand.

It's clarification to a point calling out a specific person for problematic behavior. The original comment is this:

Just waiting for a certain someone (we all know who) to come by and tell us how they probably just had their power go out and then had a bad game.

The OP then engages in a comment chain clarifying who this individual is. This is calling out an individual in an identifiable manner for negative behavior, and that's prohibited by the Naming & Shaming rule.

ModUlanopo11 votes

{quoted}

that wasn't an insult, that's clarification, people tend to find the rules to be ambiguous in general, which if i remember correctly is actually a strategy in contract law in order to always hold the upper hand.

Actually, it's common in contract law for any lack of clarity to be held against the party that wrote the contract.

Harassment is continuous by the way. not single use, so it's neither named nor harassment.

From the EEOC (which is the template for a great many states' harassment laws):

Harassment is unwelcome conduct that is based on race, color, religion, sex (including pregnancy), national origin, age (40 or older), disability or genetic information. Harassment becomes unlawful where 1) enduring the offensive conduct becomes a condition of continued employment, or 2) the conduct is severe or pervasive enough to create a work environment that a reasonable person would consider intimidating, hostile, or abusive.

The key terms here are "severe or pervasive" and "intimidating, hostile, or abusive", at least with regard to the Boards. We generally consider any behavior that has the net effect of discouraging others from using the Boards as "hostile".

3TWarrior2 votes

contract law is often ridiculous and next to immaterial other than that it CAN be brought to court for violations

ambiguous wording is used all the time

If you want to look at your own example, HARRASSMENT is not based upon hobby, voluntary actions or public representation

it is also not based upon personal conduct and any dispute over disability would have to be proven and then forever acknowledged as having a disability that could potentially void their points entirely

conditions of the above requirements are not the defining factor

to quote the legal definition for what is considered harassment is any topic to consider the following

harrassment is unwelcome conduct that is based on race, color, religion, sex(including pregnancy), national origin, age(40 or older), disability or genetic information

end quote

Omg why Teemo1 votes

Yes, and the above fails to meet these criteria and thus didn't break any rules or laws. Let's move on.

ModUlanopo3 votes

[{quoted}](name=Omg why Teemo,realm=EUW,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=0000000100010001,timestamp=2019-12-05T03:16:24.445+0000)

Yes, and the above fails to meet these criteria and thus didn't break any rules or laws. Let's move on.

Revives a month-dead thread to tell people to "move on".

General Esdeath 15 votes

[{quoted}](name=The Djinn,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=0000,timestamp=2019-10-24T20:34:25.793+0000)

From the context it's pretty clear that you're basically playing a game of "let's call out a specific boards member without saying their name" with another poster, which isn't something that is really okay here.

That can apply to anyone, same way I said "mods". I could be talking about you, or any of the others (who I won't name) that post and comment weekly, but I won't name them because of that specific rule. There are many players who use the bad game excuse, and many who don't play League anymore.

The Naming & Shaming rule doesn't actually require you to name a specific person, and using other identifiers in an attempt to identify a single person for negative purposes falls into the category of naming/shaming.

Unless I'm remembering wrong, the rules state these are name and shame

-Personal attacks -Posts that accuse others of causing a negative in-game experience -Posts targeted at witch-hunting / naming and shaming -Posts accusing others of malicious activity -Posts that accuse others of cheating or using illegal services -Posts accusing others of trolling on the Boards

Quoting them isn't a personal attack, it's the basis of a discussion.

I'm not sure I'd have called this harassment personally (I'd probably have cited the Naming & Shaming rule), but I can't say I think the removal was incorrect.

I could see an argument with the "3 years" comment (comes close to rank shaming) but I don't think it would apply since the context isn't about how well someone played, but rather someone who left a game (I could probably dig up the original post I commented on if you need it).

ModThe Djinn13 votes

[{quoted}](name=General Esdeath ,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=00000002,timestamp=2019-10-24T21:00:31.053+0000)Unless I'm remembering wrong, the rules state these are name and shame

-Personal attacks -Posts that accuse others of causing a negative in-game experience -Posts targeted at witch-hunting / naming and shaming -Posts accusing others of malicious activity -Posts that accuse others of cheating or using illegal services -Posts accusing others of trolling on the Boards

I would say this comment is the problematic one, and the other is clean-up for trying to make it clearer who this individual is:

Just waiting for a certain someone (we all know who) to come by and tell us how they probably just had their power go out and then had a bad game.

I can't see an argument that this isn't shining an intentionally negative light on this person's posting habits. You didn't even just say "just waiting for someone to..." which could be a generic comment on posters in general -- you called out a specific person, and then helped others to identify them.

General Esdeath 8 votes

[{quoted}](name=The Djinn,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=000000020000,timestamp=2019-10-24T21:02:22.186+0000)

I would say this comment is the problematic one, and the other is clean-up for trying to make it clearer who this individual is:

I can't see an argument that this isn't shining an intentionally negative light on this person's posting habits. You didn't even just say "just waiting for someone to..." which could be a generic comment on posters in general -- you called out a specific person, and then helped others to identify them.

But they haven't identified him, nobody has named him to my knowledge. And some board members are just more well known that we assume it's X or Y or Z. If you said "A certain morde main" I would assume it was Malicious Metal posting it. My comment falls under none of the categories.

  • I didn't name him and attack him as a person, I was waiting for him to comment it, whether I agree or disagree with it.
  • I didn't accuse him of anything in-game.
  • Not witch hunting, I'm not asking for some sort of punishment or telling people to mass downvote and report his posts, didn't name him either.
  • Didn't accuse him of being malicious.
  • Didn't accuse him of cheating or using any illegal services.
  • Didn't accuse him of trolling, despite some people claiming he is, I think he's very naive but that's not something you can punish someone for.
ModThe Djinn13 votes

[{quoted}](name=General Esdeath ,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=0000000200000000,timestamp=2019-10-24T21:12:43.646+0000)But they haven't identified him, nobody has named him to my knowledge.

Effectively identifying the individual is, for all practical purposes, the same as naming them.

If you said "A certain morde main" I would assume it was Malicious Metal posting it.

And if you'd said "now all we need is a certain Morde main to [come in here and post something problematic/annoying/etc]" we're probably have removed that as well.

My comment falls under none of the categories.

None of the categories can be all-encompassing. The first rule is moderator discretion for a reason, and that reason is because edge-cases occur and we can't cover all attempts (accidental or intentional) to push the limits of the written rules no matter how well those rules are written.

Lauchmelder8 votes

[{quoted}](name=The Djinn,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=00000002000000000000,timestamp=2019-10-24T21:16:45.732+0000) None of the categories can be all-encompassing.

This is a cheap cop-out. What it boils down to is "the moderator in question didn't like what he/she read and deleted the post" and that's a problem. This is a public forum and there needs to be some sort of ruleset and most of the mods on here enforce them to a more or less satisfying point.

The problem moderators are the 1-2 snowflakes who are starting to become trigger happy the second they see an instance of "fuck" in a post, even though it's merely to emphasize a point.

ModThe Djinn13 votes

{quoted}This is a cheap cop-out.

Having over a decade of experience moderating various boards and forums, I can assure you it isn't. If you do not have rules that allow for discretion then your rules are either always too vague or always subject to players continuing to push them as far as possible and claiming immunity from the letter of the law. It creates issues every place I've seen in done.

What it boils down to is "the moderator in question didn't like what he/she read and deleted the post" and that's a problem.

I've seen this happen once or twice when someone lets a personal opinion weigh too heavily on their judgment. I've overturned those instances. I have no problem overturning moderator actions I feel were improperly done.

The problem moderators are the 1-2 snowflakes who are starting to become trigger happy the second they see an instance of "fuck" in a post, even though it's merely to emphasize a point.

I have seen no situations where this has happened. If you have, let me know and I'll be happy to review (and almost certainly overturn) those cases. Cursing is allowed as long as it is done appropriately and not used to insult, harass, or otherwise target other individuals.

Lauchmelder4 votes

I had a post removed some 10 months ago where all I said was:

"MF do I look like an assassin main to you?" + a link to my op.gg

There's a certain very triggerhappy herald as well who imo has no business being a moderator.

I ultimatively don't care enough about a removed post to contest it. Accept and be done with it.

I still don't want someone with a triggerfinger holding the delete button though.

ModThe Djinn10 votes

{quoted}I had a post removed some 10 months ago where all I said was:

"MF do I look like an assassin main to you?" + a link to my op.gg

This removal is entirely due to MF being a well-known acronym for "motherfucker," which is not an acceptable thing to call someone on the boards. While cursing is allowed, using curses to insult other players is not. I would not call that trigger-happy, although I appreciate you may disagree.

RacoonHunter6 votes

Actually, according to the riot rules that is not naming or shaming. No where in that statement did he call out the individual player. The removal violated your own forum rules as I have read the naming and shaming rules before posting this and no where in it does it even mention what you quoted. The post doesn't even state if it is for an individual person or a group..

I really think that this rule needs to be looked at and made sure league moderators are better than the NFL

AeroWaffle6 votes

{quoted}

No where in that statement did he call out the individual player.

The Djinn directly addressed that in the comment you replied to.

"The Naming & Shaming rule doesn't actually require you to name a specific person, and using other identifiers in an attempt to identify a single person for negative purposes falls into the category of naming/shaming."

The post doesn't even state if it is for an individual person or a group..

Then you didn't read the post. There is no other way to take the statement portion, "a certain someone [we all know who]".

ModThe Djinn10 votes

{quoted}The post doesn't even state if it is for an individual person or a group.

The context is important here. The post mentioned "a specific someone (we all know who)." That's problematic in and of itself, but possibly not worth a removal. What made it cross the line fully was the OP and another poster engaging in a back-and-forth game to make it clear exactly who was being referred to.

I really think that this rule needs to be looked at and made sure league moderators are better than the NFL

I will bring this up to know if a clarity change in the rule would be helpful. I know that this is a violation of the spirit of the rule though, and our rules are not written to be 100% all-encompassing because leaving no room for flexibility to handle violations of the rules in principle (but not in specifically written language) leaves us with people who constantly push to violate the spirit of the rule without the letter of the rule.

CaptainAntiHeroz14 votes

This just sounds like an abuse of power to me Ain't said a name, same with why when people ask if people should get reported they shouldn't show the name of the persons involved and just let it be actions that dictate

No personal attack happened here and if someone interrupts it as a personal attack they should probably consider why they're taking it as a personal slight

Like if someone says "You know that one guy who always summoner 4 into the enemy team and feeds first blood" Is open ended and could refer to anyone, if one person takes it as talking about them thats their problem to deal with

ModThe Djinn11 votes

{quoted}Like if someone says "You know that one guy who always into the enemy team and feeds first blood" Is open ended and could refer to anyone, if one person takes it as talking about them thats their problem to deal with

Agreed.

But when it becomes "You know that one certain someone we all know who..." and someone responds with "does this person also [specific individually identifying habit]" and you respond with "if the person you're thinking of also [second individually identifying habit]," then it is no longer open ended.

That is what happened here, and why it was removed.

CaptainAntiHeroz5 votes

[{quoted}](name=The Djinn,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=00010000,timestamp=2019-10-24T21:46:56.479+0000)

Agreed.

But when it becomes "You know that one certain someone we all know who..." and someone responds with "does this person also [specific individually identifying habit]" and you respond with "if the person you're thinking of also [second individually identifying habit]," then it is no longer open ended.

That is what happened here, and why it was removed.

ah the full story, welp did what you had to then good on ya

General Esdeath 4 votes

{quoted}

http://m.quickmeme.com/img/07/073a426b570230c0347c3a962b685466d48e5ccfea8e77cf4226b23c8df5f20e.jpg

Man I hated that kid. I used to tilt my body so he touched me and I'd tell our teacher.

[sg-syndra]

KFCeytron6 votes

[{quoted}](name=General Esdeath ,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=00030000,timestamp=2019-10-24T22:32:49.012+0000)

Man I hated that kid. I used to tilt my body so he touched me and I'd tell our teacher.

[sg-syndra]

Well, somebody told the teacher.

Honeydew Zekling5 votes

{quoted}

Well, somebody told the teacher.


Just waiting for a certain someone [we all know who] to come by and tell us how they totally aren't a tattletale

Other poster: If it is who i think it is who I think it is, it's just proof that Mods don't look at the boards

Me later: Is the person you're thinking of posted something like "Why was my post removed for naming and shaming? I never even named anyone?"


As you can see above I never EXPLICITLY named OP, but by context you can figure out I'm referencing OP. I have named them. Also by context you can see that I'm calling out OP by mocking them which would constitute as shaming.

Looking at the original offending posts, OP implicitly named someone. In the first post shown it sounds like they're saying "wow, just waiting for crybaby playerX to come here and try and defend themselves" which easily falls under shaming.

OP. You named. You shamed. You rightfully had your posts removed.

NoobDefault9 votes

Mods abuse their power. Some things never change.

KVbqbFsC8e8 votes

I wonder if your post would have been removed if it were not referring to someone who was formerly a "specialist". I have to say I doubt it.

This removal was a total joke.

ModThe Djinn10 votes

{quoted}I wonder if your post would have been removed if it were not mentioning someone who was formerly a "specialist". I have to say I doubt it.

I didn't even bother to take a look at who it was directed at when I reviewed the action, and I don't believe the moderator in question did either. The comment chain was simply not appropriate.

Nea1045 votes

Where exactly is the "shame" about a sentence like "waiting for someone saying everything is fine"? Where is the offence, exactly?

I thought it was a joke, at first.

IAintDarius3 votes

Can someone take the risk and tell me who they are talking about?

ModThe Djinn3 votes

{quoted}

Can someone take the risk and tell me who they are talking about?

I would not recommend it, no, as encouraging violations of board rules is also not okay. So I'm going to just recommend that this not happen and we pretend you never asked.

General Esdeath 3 votes

{quoted}

Can someone take the risk and tell me who they are talking about?

Can't name him since it would technically now be naming and shaming.

Dabluechimp3 votes

I agree whole heartily, logged into league to get a msg about receiving a punishment for negative behavior (don't even know what it was, expire before it ever affected me) when the most questionable thing I did was tell two people to "chill out, grow up, and stop fighting" cause they were bickering and fighting about K/D/A ratios if thats punishable then I'm done with these snowflakes
[sg-kiko]

Yin Yang Taoist3 votes

Just from a third person's perspective, reading the first few posts made me realize that you guys are going around in circles. Asking the same question, getting the same answer. In short, the naming and shaming rule does apply there because everyone does find out who it is. Once the person in question pops out to defend himself.

Its just a rule and the mod is doing his job. I dislike the 'Naming & Shaming' rule because some people really deserve to be banished to the abyss for the things that they do on the Rift. However, its not upto me to decide the rules. So while I do sympathize with the OP, I can understand why the mod had a valid reason for removing that post.

General Esdeath 1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Yin Yang Taoist,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=000b,timestamp=2019-10-31T00:40:47.057+0000)

Just from a third person's perspective, reading the first few posts made me realize that you guys are going around in circles. Asking the same question, getting the same answer. In short, the naming and shaming rule does apply there because everyone does find out who it is. Once the person in question pops out to defend himself.

Its just a rule and the mod is doing his job. I dislike the 'Naming & Shaming' rule because some people really deserve to be banished to the abyss for the things that they do on the Rift. However, its not upto me to decide the rules. So while I do sympathize with the OP, I can understand why the mod had a valid reason for removing that post.

By that logic I can accuse anyone of talking about me by claiming they are, then having their post removed.

Yin Yang Taoist1 votes

[{quoted}](name=General Esdeath ,realm=NA,application-id=6heBIhQc,discussion-id=1Qq7fEYo,comment-id=000b0000,timestamp=2019-10-31T01:38:13.391+0000)

By that logic I can accuse anyone of talking about me by claiming they are, then having their post removed.

You can abuse that loophole but normally, who has the time to go around doing that?! Boredom!? Maybe! Please don't take my earlier post the wrong way. I am definitely on your side. Like I said, sometimes certain people drive you so crazy that you're incredulous about their existence over the Rift and surprised that they are still able to access the game, given how malicious and abhorrent that they are. But when that happens, according to Riot.. you may only report them or submit a ticket with screenshots, showing evidence.

If you think about it, it does make a little bit of sense. Because if everyone who was dissatisfied did this, started calling people out over the forums..

.. it'd just become a flea market. We wouldn't be able to do normal discussions or address actual topics that the boards were created for, right?! Also, some of them might even be the unreasonable players who just post their side of the story while cleverly dismissing their own poisonous words which may have started the entire thing, in the first place. You only get one side of the story and no one knows the entire thing! Which, may start a 'witch hunt' on a person who was actually innocent in the first place!

So, I do understand why they made this rule. And at the same time, I feel your pain as well.. being someone who has had to deal with such obstructive players on the Rift before. I think that most of everyone who reads this post, including you my dear OP, has! So, the right place for this would be 'Submitting a Ticket' to report said player because that's where they address these issues.

TlT1T1T1T1T1TlT2 votes

Honestly... any moderation of forum comments is hilarious to me. But we live in a "care bear hold my hand mommy because the internet made fun of me" world.

Its the care bear countdown. 5. 4. 3. 2. 1.

ModThe Djinn7 votes

{quoted}Honestly... any moderation of forum comments is hilarious to me.

Then I am happy to provide amusement. This isn't really a "care bear hold my hand" place though, so much as a "we have rules and people who don't wish to abide by them can find somewhere else to post with rules they're more in agreement with" place.

By all means find it amusing if you wish, but please understand that venues -- both real and virtual -- have rules, and sometimes those rules prohibit certain actions. The existence of somewhat reasonable rules like "don't harass or insult other patrons" wouldn't be unreasonable at a bar or a cafe, and it's no less unreasonable here.

General Esdeath 1 votes

{quoted}

Honestly... any moderation of forum comments is hilarious to me. But we live in a "care bear hold my hand mommy because the internet made fun of me" world.

Its the care bear countdown. 5. 4. 3. 2. 1.

I prefer My Little Pony to care bears. Starlight Glimmer is bad ass [slayer-pantheon-thumbs]

Syrile2 votes

I posted a thread about the Rules and how they are open to abuse by favoritism. I think the Rules, as they are, are impossible to use. They are very much geared towards making favoritism the way to choose who is punished and who is not.

If you check the level of threads and posts that actually violate the rules it is somewhere over 70% because the rules are so vague and open they allow people to make decisions based on who reported it, how many downvotes they have and such.

There is no consistency because the Rules do not require consistency and it is clear in the way things are handled.

Oh yeah... And it was instantly downvoted, in a sub-forum that is meant for Mods to respond to... :D It proves my point perfectly. The same group of people who hate you follow you around and abuse the rules in a way that prevents them from getting punished while being protected by moderators.

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