Toxic, support and you
Taking the advice of the first comment:
Game Example: Oriana (me) - 0/7/5 - Wards - 28 (next highest in the game was Leona on the other team with 15) Draven - 7/9/3 Hecarim - 5/10/2 Wards - 2
Game went with Drave and I winning our lane and then getting 4 and 5v1'd under tower while Hecarim died to Gromp, twice. We offered ways for Hecarim to recover and to aid us by warding and counter ganking but his only replies were toxic and along the lines of "You're 0/7 hahaha, why would I listen to you?"
KDA, I think is completely meaningless on a support that's behind. It's almost entirely dependent on how the rest of the team helps them recover. There's no chance I'm gonna 1v1 anyone.
We were trying to be helpful. To get him to recover and give us a chance at winning as a team. But he was so toxic, all we could do was ignore him in the end because he thought he was doing BETTER than us. It's just severely frustrating when people ignore good advice because they come from someone who is behind. Draven and I were both very good but their team was VERY coordinated and ganked very well whereas our team didn't and ALL this guy could do was blame other people for his obvious failure.
Thinking about all this though I've noticed that very few Junglers know how to recover when behind. Would appreciate a couple links for good JG videos where a jungler gets behind early (maybe cause they died to gromp or got shaco'd at level one while they tried to get their first buff) so that I can help them more. I'm a support, I like playing support. Anything I can do to help my team win is what I like to do and I'd like to know how to help this Hecarim better or at least know there's just nothing that can be done.
TL:DR - Don't spit in your supports face by quoting KDA to them when they're trying to help you and the team. Their stats are very dependent on how the rest of the team is doing.
Reported him for failure to communicate but I don't even know if that's the right way to do it. I'm just certain that he made it completely impossible to win because he was sooo behind as the JG and never counter ganked.