This word "toxic" is out of control

slippykitten··3 votes·643 views

I'm going to submit that the word "toxic" has become the most toxic thing of all. Riot loves ambiguity, because it keeps them safe from being held responsible for continuity, so the word "toxic" that Riot (Lyte) loves to throw around hasn't been given an actual definition. There are very few clear cut rules when it comes to player behavior, and Lyte prefers to just deem anything considered toxic as toxic.

What this has created is a community of immature children (which is any online community) that use the word toxic to describe anything they don't like. Therefore, anytime anyone is asked to do anything, called out for a mistake, asked to fill a role, or any number of things they don't want to address, they simply call out the word toxic and they can continue being an unreasonable and unbearable teammate.

It's becoming as bad as the word racist. Whenever you're proven to be wrong or causing trouble, if you can just somehow, sorta kinda, make the other person seem racist, you're automatically right. That's how this community, under the leadership of Lyte, use the word toxic.

The result is that no one can actually communicate with their team because players hide their poor behavior behind the word toxic and feel justified by Riot for doing so. If i ask my top laner to ward so he stops feeding, all he has to do is call me toxic, and he can continue to feed because if I say anything else, I'm reported for toxic behavior.

As long as Riot perpetuates an atmosphere of reporting everyone with ambiguous rules, the community can only get more toxic.

tl;dr - The word toxic makes sure no communication can actually take place, and is used in every game by actual toxic players to hide their toxic behavior.

4 Comments

PIMPSMOOTH3 votes

You used the word 3 times in your single tl;dr sentence.

Sukishoo3 votes

toxic is so toxic that toxic got toxic all over that toxic, do you toxic?

BlueBoy233 votes

Toxic is Synonymous with Venomous... someone whose comments drip disdain and or contempt. Most times it's not what you say it's how you say it. Like your above sentence for your message with your top laner. Instead of saying place a ward here so you'll stop feeding... why not say place a ward here so our jungle knows when to come countergank, this way we can get you back in the game. It's about putting a positive spin on things. Just the tone of your message above is a little toxic :D. Mostly Toxic is in the interpretation of the reader. You can't convey tone over text so you have to assume the person on the other side will take even constructive criticism as toxic. The way to avoid this is to reframe comments in terms of team action rather than personal criticism. Can you do this so that the team can blah blah blah, rather than can you do this so you can stop getting ganked. gotta spin doctor it bro. Or just mute all as soon as you start to rage over stupidity in chat... sometimes when I'm just not in the mood for shenanigans I'll mute all so I can just do my thing.

slippykitten1 votes

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Toxic is Synonymous with Venomous... someone whose comments drip disdain and or contempt. Most times it's not what you say it's how you say it. Like your above sentence for your message with your top laner. Instead of saying place a ward here so you'll stop feeding... why not say place a ward here so our jungle knows when to come countergank, this way we can get you back in the game. It's about putting a positive spin on things. Just the tone of your message above is a little toxic :D. Mostly Toxic is in the interpretation of the reader. You can't convey tone over text so you have to assume the person on the other side will take even constructive criticism as toxic. The way to avoid this is to reframe comments in terms of team action rather than personal criticism. Can you do this so that the team can blah blah blah, rather than can you do this so you can stop getting ganked. gotta spin doctor it bro. Or just mute all as soon as you start to rage over stupidity in chat... sometimes when I'm just not in the mood for shenanigans I'll mute all so I can just do my thing.

That's just the point. I'm simply not going to take the time in game to type out an extra paragraph to qualify the truth enough so that someone doesn't take it as "toxic". 0/5/0 is feeding, the reason is irrelevant. If i say "hey you moron, stop feeding" that's unhelpful and I'm blaming his feeding on him being a moron, which is toxic. If i say "place some wards so you stop feeding" I'm telling him what he needs to do (helpful) and I'm revealing the reality of the situation. The truth isn't toxic, it's just the truth.

But you're forgetting that this word was instituted by Riot, and it has not made the community better. The community is far worse when everyone can dismiss any poor behavior by simply calling out the word "toxic".

By this communities standards, every soldier in the military, every coach of any sports team, and nearly every boss is considered toxic, because they will ask you to do things without trying to pad your emotions first. That isn't how the world works, and it's ridiculous.

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