Any one know how to be less toxic??
Im not toxic im just more "passive aggressive" (if you consider that toxic) i want to change this before i actually get perma banned which i dont want any tips??? i want to reform
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Before you speak your words should pass three questions. Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
If the answer is no to any of these questions you probably should not say it.
Throw this on when you start playing league:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcsUYu0PVxY&t=0s
When you put it on, repeat this every 5minutes:
"Can I still hear the music?"
The second you stop hearing the music, you're entering angry territory. For the most part, it should keep you relaxed and help you feel good. I'm also a recovering addic -- sorry, wrong speech. I'm also a reforming toxic player that suffers from passive aggressiveness and retaliation. After my first 2 week ban, I considered people not to be worth the effort. You'll have games you lose and you'll have apes on your team. Deep breaths actually help. A scream here and there actually helps. Just stop typing.
Hire a therapist IRL for your mental issues. Take a break from league. Pickup an outdoorsy active hobby such as hiking or jogging. Problem solved :)
Pretty simple. First, know the Summoner's Code.
Summoner's Code
- SUPPORT YOUR TEAM
- DRIVE CONSTRUCTIVE FEEDBACK (without insulting or tilting)
- FACILITATE CIVIL DISCUSSION
- ENJOY YOURSELF, BUT NOT AT ANYONE ELSE'S EXPENSE
- BUILD RELATIONSHIPS
- SHOW HUMILITY IN VICTORY, AND GRACE IN DEFEAT
- BE RESOLUTE, NOT INDIGNANT
- LEAVE NO NEWBIE BEHIND!
- LEAD BY EXAMPLE
Here some personal Advices. Never retaliate if someone is insulting you or harassing you. Meaning never argues with your teammate. Never ask for reports and never show that you give up. Never respond to toxicity in chat, but respond it to mute and report. Just keep a friendly conversation and strategies. Also never use any slurs, racial, or any of that sort in the chat. Even if someone asks or bait you in. Never respond to it.
This way, you'll never get another report and your account lives healthy and long. I had this account since beta. All I had to do was follow the Summoner's Code.
try taking deep breaths if something upsets you or say what you'd say to them out loud instead of typing it
When my team makes a mistake, I tell them what we should do to avoid it next fight rather than make a barrage of toxic chat. Try it :3
remind yourself that you could be warding instead of typing
/mute all and don't talk. Also read some self help books and get a therapist. And meds.
Honestly two things one stop caring about what your team says or the enemy says it takes a mental beating to shrug it all off but it's what I do. Second if you can't do the first thing mute all it will be less fun since you can't bicker back and forth but aside from spam pinging you can't be toxic since you can't see the bronze guy tilting in chat in the first place.
PSA: I JUST GOT A 14-DAY BAN!?!? (Q/A compilation)
Made a PSA for people like you. HOPE THIS HELPS.
:D
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Btw, kudos for recognizing you have a problem and deciding to take the opportunity to reform. You're already a step FAR AHEAD of alot of people that get 14-days or get banned, restricted, and punished.
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Also, if you got the time you should def look at ulanopoo's old knowledge base (which I will look up for you in a moment)
If you want to take the time to seriously get "learnt" about how to avoid a perma while also improving your behavior. These resources provide a wealth of knowledge. And also, though Ulanopo's knowledge base was definetely made before this automated system, it was updated before we went to this new forum formatting (which was right around the time the automated system came into place.) So it was updated to include information about a majority of what was incorporated into this newer system.
What this means is that ALOT of this information still applies.
When someone talks trash to you or try to tilt you just mute them. Think about the consequences of being toxic on you and the people you play with. I was the same way but I learn to just let my emotions out in discord and curse out my friends so I dont get ban in game. jk but it is better to just rage at your computer and not in game chat so you dont get banned ;D
keep a strong mind. brush everything off and improve [slayer-pantheon-thumbs]
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Im not toxic im just more "passive aggressive" (if you consider that toxic) i want to change this before i actually get perma banned which i dont want any tips??? i want to reform
No, you will be banned for saying one thing. Bye