People complain about toxicity. But where is the competitive respect?
I'm tired of two things:
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Emote spamming. Honestly, I'd be ok with it if using an emote caused the character to be suppressed for the animation time. If you want to taunt someone after outplaying them, go ahead. It just opens you up for you team. Besides, how many of you ACTUALLY watch the whole taunt or laugh? You just try to spam it so you can try to piss someone off and bait them. Well it works. Not for me. Actually, I'm pretty level headed about the whole thing. Sometimes it's just enough of a delay to allow me to catch you and then kill you for the 4th time. No, I'm frustrated because my TEAMMATES are doing it, and telling them to stop isn't working.
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End the fucking game.
I play Go. I observe Go culture. And there is one holy rule in Go above all others: we are here for a finite amount of time; do not disrespect your opponent by wasting their valuable time. Go is much more snowbally than League and can last 2 hours, so not only is it reasonable to surrender, it's expected. It's also expected that you finish your opponent decisively. No building up your territory and slowly sucking the life out of them. Not only is it less effective than playing decisively, it's wasting the person's time since to surrender both parties must agree.
When I see the enemy just spamming taunt or laugh outside our fountain and just letting minions whittle down the nexus, that royally hacks me off more so than the first point. Hell, it's not even the emote spamming; it's just waiting down the clock at this point. When we've tried to surrender and failed because of a stupid duo so that we can move on to the next game, when we are letting you win because 2 people rage quit and it's snowballed out of control, when we have graciously allowed you to actually hit the nexus instead of denying you the satisfaction in dealing the killing blow as quickly as possible, your response is to shove it in our face and just drag it on...?
"Oh please, Menea, you'd do the same thin-"
No.
I never do this shit. Ever. When I play League, I always hit the nexus if I can. When I play Hearthstone, I always try to deal the finishing blow in as few actions as possible. When I know I mathematically lose on the next turn, I surrender. When I someone offers to surrender, I always accept it. When I see that I can end the game almost immediately without having to do the "fun" bit of ramping up as my strategy, I still end it. I don't whittle down an objective so that if shit hits the fan, I can always just destroy it an end the game, whatever it is.
I respect my opponent and their time. I respect their skill and I respect their desire to win. I do not play "gotcha" with their hope of winning. I end it there and now. I will always deal the Coup de Grace if I can. This isn't a FFA where the point of the game is to get kills ad nauseum and die trying.
The refusal to give a Coup de Grace both blows my mind and sickens me. One of my friends did this, and it completely caught me off guard. "Because it's fun."
I fully accept that this post may be downvoted into oblivion. If it does, know this: I am now irrevocably y jaded towards this community because poor sportsmanship can now be justified because it's fun.