When did solo queue turn into a daycare center?

Got reported for verbal when all I said was that I needed to catch up and I wasn't going to read chat anymore. http://i.imgur.com/nKkugWd.jpg I was eventually reported for farming stacks as a jungler at the 20 min mark after continuously pinging for help and being ignored when my jungle was being invaded.

5min later http://i.imgur.com/TeqlqgK.jpg Oh gee, I wonder why farming is an alternative of earning gold and leveling up instead of going around chasing a kill.

People are seriously forgetting that solo queue isn't based on gathering mid at the 10min mark for lcs big plays, and farming is a must.