whenever there a couple kills ahead or a particular champ is fed, my brain clicks to "gg surrender at 20" and its getting to the point where my friends don't like playing with me(with voice chat service) because i complain to much
is there anyway way i can look at games a different way to help this shitty attitude of mine
Unclesatan2 votesmy suggestion, is that you always assume that a game is winnable. the fun part about being behind is trying to figure out who are the main threats and what the easiest ways to stop them are.
Angry Monster1 votesthis is horrible advice. Not every game is winnable from behind.
Some times the right call is GG and no hard feelings. What the OP needs to learn is how to handle the frustration/disappointment of not having a chance so early on.
Unclesatan1 votesthis is horrible advice.
ok then let's see your advice mr lcs king?
i use this on a daily basis and it helps me win games, it was advice that i got from a challenger player so if it's horrible advice, then it's horrible advice that wins me games so i don't really care what you say
Angry Monster1 votesWow a challenger player that probably is not even 20? He must have so much life experience.......
Sorry but you are being an ignorant tool.
LCS players always know when a game is over. Its how they deal with the loss that makes them great. Not blindly saying everything is winnable.
Unclesatan1 votesWow a challenger player that probably is not even 20? He must have so much life experience.......
Sorry but you are being an ignorant tool.
LCS players always know when a game is over. Its how they deal with the loss that makes them great. Not blindly saying everything is winnable.
and yet LCS players have turned around games when their enemies were over 20k gold ahead of them
keep in mind solo queue // normal players ARE NOT LCS PLAYERS AND MAKE ALOT MORE MISTAKES meaning games are MUCH easier to turn around
a challenger player it doesn't matter what his age is, he has a consistently good attitude about the game and he doesn't just give up and try to "focus on winning his lane" just so that he can feel better about losing, instead of attempting to rally a team and work together.
i can't even tell you how many games where i was on a team with 2 kills against a 30 kill team and we turned it around with co-operation and no bad attitudes
i'm being an ignorant tool for not giving up? sure guy, that makes so much sense that my mind is blown.
i'm done arguing with you, you're never going to admit you're wrong.
hobomann21 votesthanks i'll give that a try
cause right now im just
and im sick of being that way
Unclesatan1 votesthanks i'll give that a try
cause right now im just
and im sick of being that way
u just have to look at being behind as if it were a challenge and if you can overcome it then it makes you feel even better about winning. but it's really hard to overcome it if you are convinced you're going to lose
Angry Monster1 votesI think you need to hear your self. It will put in prospective what you sound like in game to others. This self realization is quite helpful. Set up windows to record your mic on game and then listen to your self afterwards. How you sound may surprise you.
Focus on what you CAN do. Be it winign yout lane, roaming, or improving your own in game. Try to find that THING that you can take out of the game, so you do not feel it was only a loss.
Just stop talking to your friends for the match. Mute the mic and you can say what you want or to keep for saying something to your friends. The silence can not be worse than a negative attitude. Yes its not as fun, but i have the feeling your not having fun at that point anyways.
hobomann21 voteswhat usually comes across my lips when i die or a person gets there 5 kill or another teammate is feeding start bitching about how OP the fed champion is
Angry Monster1 votesHearing it makes it hit home how it sounds to others. Their is tone of voice, how often ect.
Sure in game you can justify it, but just you listening to your own words usually hits your own ego(psyche). And sometimes that what is needed to help with change.
Unclesatan1 voteswhat usually comes across my lips when i die or a person gets there 5 kill or another teammate is feeding start bitching about how OP the fed champion is
thing to do here is when you find yourself starting to bitch take a step back and think about what you can do to subdue the champ who is fed. take time to leave your lane and rally a couple people to help you shut the fed champ down, sweep some bushes and ambush someone then take a turret. if every time you wanted to complain about something, you instead attempted to step back and think about a solution, not only will you be a better player for it but you'll be more fun to play with
Unclesatan1 votesI think you need to hear your self. It will put in prospective what you sound like in game to others. This self realization is quite helpful. Set up windows to record your mic on game and then listen to your self afterwards. How you sound may surprise you.
Focus on what you CAN do. Be it winign yout lane, roaming, or improving your own in game. Try to find that THING that you can take out of the game, so you do not feel it was only a loss.
Just stop talking to your friends for the match. Mute the mic and you can say what you want or to keep for saying something to your friends. The silence can not be worse than a negative attitude. Yes its not as fun, but i have the feeling your not having fun at that point anyways.
muting your mic does not change the attitude you have in a game, it's only a bandaid fix to a larger problem
also if he wins his lane and he still has the attitude that the game is over when someone feeds it will only make him feel worse about the game because "he won his lane yet he still lost because of teammates" or something similar to that. you're right you do need to focus on improving yourself, but working together with a team and having a genuinely good attitude about trying to turn a game around will do alot more than simply focusing on yourself
i like your idea of having him record himself though
Angry Monster1 votesIts not just about him. He has to consider his freinds that are also listening to him. No solution is going to be a over night success. Temp ones like muting will help for now. Also it will be a realization check on him self at that point.
I just had to mute myself cause i am UPSET.