Comparisons between feeding and "toxicity"
I just played through a game where one player played absolutely horribly and another player insulted them a couple times. It made me wonder about a few things.
Intentional feeding is bannable. Unintentional feeding is not. Playing terribly is perfectly acceptable. A player goes 0-8 in their solo lane, and the player carrying through their lane makes a comment like, "You're so bad!" or "Why are you even playing top?"
Is that player's behavior beneficial to the team? Of course not. Is the feeding player's behavior beneficial to the team? Even more so not, I'd say.
It causes me to question what is intentional or unintentional feeding. How is anyone to draw a line? Wouldn't not buying wards constitute as intentional feeding? Wouldn't walking to lane and dying over and over constitute as intentional feeding? It seems like the line is drawn as, "This player can't help but play poorly, so feeding is okay. However, an insulting player can help but insult his teammates, so it's not okay."
However, that statement isn't true both ways. A feeding player can help but constantly feed. What if an insulting player actually can't help but type their comment? Isn't a simple, "You're so bad!" just as resistible to type as dying for your 8th time in lane should be as easy to avoid?
Back to the circumstances of my particular game. The strange part is, the majority of the game seemed to agree to report our player (who was 15-2, doing what he could to carry the game, I know because I was in his lane supporting him) simply because he told the other player that he was bad (twice). The player who went 1-14 was not (I'm assuming, based on lobby chat response).
That's really puzzling to me. When you play that poorly, you shouldn't feel this self-entitlement where, "I'm allowed to completely ruin your game, but you aren't allowed to say a single bad thing to me." To me, the feeding player is more "toxic" than the one throwing a jab here and there. I just really don't understand the encouragement to report a player for making a comment about it, while the player ruining the game for 4 other people gets the pass because "he's just that bad." Thoughts?