How I feel about obnoxious laners when I jungle

Lately it has become my laners expect me to win the lane for them and then flame and troll when I don't. I am trying to get a gank going bot side and then my mid tries to dive their enemy under tower dies then spam pings me for not instantly being at their side. Or there is nowhere to gank cause all lanes have hyper pushed up and it still too early for tower dives and I get flamed for no ganks. heck even trying to farm past level 3 I get spam pinged for ganks