River scuttler and mid

I'm a gold player and I main mid Morgana. I'm having an issue lately in games where my jungle insists on fighting at scuttle crab to the death every single time.

Typically what happens is both mids will then show up to the scuttle and my jungler will die to my mid giving my mid double jungle buff and first blood. This has happened like four games in a row and its honestly getting pretty fucking old.

The main reason is that I'm playing morgana and the enemy mid is generally playing a burst damage assassin like Leblanc, Fizz, or Zed.

The double buff and the first blood gold combined with Morgana mid already being extremely off meta is enough to stop me from snowballing mid, which I otherwise would do every single game I play.

So what do I do? Should I just let my jungler die because he's an idiot that doesn't know when to back off?