How can i stop being so so toxic?

KingCzar·6/4/2015, 6:44:20 AM·3 votes·879 views

Hi, ill attempt to be nice in the beginning and stuff but every game it ends up with me being extremely toxic. itll go something like this, someone on the team is making the same mistake over and over, i try to fix it, (usually starting off nice, like hey why dont you build this instead, its better because... etc :)) then they get offended for some reason, tell me to stop, tell everyone to report me, i end up getting super angry and becoming extremely toxic. I feel like people should stop spamming in chat REPORT HIM REPROT HIM REPROT HIM REPTROIAOR Also why do people not use the mute button? It seems to me as if they actually like to argue and stuff, and like to fight. they find it amusing, but they also are getting mad at it too, they dont want to mute because they feel like they are losing the "fight" lol. Well i dont even want to get into that anymore really, but i find it so hard when everyone gets butthurt over the smallest things. any advice?

31 Comments

Lugg6/4/2015, 6:54:47 AM5 votes

Go to anger management classes.

zane yalgir6/4/2015, 6:46:51 AM5 votes

stop chatting,

just read a very valid point i hadnt thought of.

if there so icredably stupid that they are losing you the game. odds are they arent gonna understand you nor will you ever be seen as postive.

ignore people who dont like you. and if you find it hard follow them spaming lugh or tuant

like Chogath would you like some wine with that cheese.

you lost the game might as well pis himn off

Deep Terror Nami6/4/2015, 6:55:33 AM3 votes

Stop thinking "everyone gets butthurt" and start assuming "I'm being rude to strangers". That is the problem.

Old Man Teeto6/4/2015, 11:13:42 AM2 votes

Hi.

If you're like the majority of players, controlling your emotions can be difficult. I'm here to help you, and others like you, control your emotions without lengthy anger management, or daily prescription medicine.

You simply have to follow my three easy steps.

Step 1: Go eat a taco.

Taco's are the pinnacle of food choice, as any variety of taco and shell can be used. Food in general releases positive endorphins which make you feel happier. Never play when hungry.

Step 2: Only glance at chat.

If your teammates are talking a lot, or too long to be able to read all of it with a glance, it's likely not important to the game. Make sure to recognize keywords and phrases, like "Have TP", "Ganking", or "No Summoners/Ult" at a fly as those are valid information. If the other team is talking a lot, consider disabling all-chat if you end up reading their text too much.

Step 3: Communicate primarily with pings.

Try to avoid pressing the enter key, if it's really bad remove your enter key from your keyboard and ONLY use pings. When typing, only use keywords and short phrases, like

"MIA" (or "SS") "Diving." "Buying." "Bait"

Good luck and have a good game Summoner.

Epjest

1000angrybees6/4/2015, 7:11:52 AM2 votes

Uninstall leagueoflegends.exe

No, but for real, I find that the best results with communication comes from being genuine and appreciative with other players. I try to give people a light mood at the start of every match, I congratulate them on first blood, say 'gj!' on ganking well, thank them every time the give me red/blue buff, tell the team they did well after we win a team fight... just things like that. Even when the game isnt going well a majority of people will still remember that you were a supportive teammate. There's not much you can do about the rotten ones. You wanna start something, be my guest. God knows I've done it. But at least dont let things get out of hand. If it's getting too heated, just go back to ignoring them, or mute them.

HorusEye6/4/2015, 7:14:14 AM2 votes

If you never even bother to hit the mute button, then it's totally your fault.

KingCzar6/4/2015, 7:53:10 AM1 votes

ill just swing weights around my head and bounce my face off the wall and give my self brain damage.

dEAdbUs6/4/2015, 10:52:25 AM1 votes

It's easy. Your jungler need start to gank, team must stop to farm and start to push. Sometimes I tear my head hair, so dumb teammates I have.

Vistha Kai6/4/2015, 10:56:37 AM1 votes

Don't use chat and scream into a pillow.

PS. You can move the chat out of the screen too.

KingCzar6/4/2015, 7:24:46 AM1 votes

who ever the fuk is spamming negs on my comments go away ty summoner 11

I don't think the tribunal sees enough, i think once the truly game breaking players are banned, everyone will improve much more. I never throw games feed or troll other players, i trash talk when they piss me off though a ton. players who dont talk, yet troll, but look like they are doing okay on the scoreboard make the game a nightmare. they can say things in the chat that make them look good, but in reality they are extremely toxic and are ruining the game, yet no one will know but that player, and maybe ppl in the game witnessing it.