Botlane awareness help

So i tend to get advantages in lane, and then either the jungle, midlaner, or top comes to end my happiness. Theyre either using some path i dont think of or just walking over wards faster than i react... any suggestions? I wonder if its because im playing too aggressive and focusing too much attention on killing, but honestly, i worry if im not that aggressive ill not press my advantage hard enough. Also wonder if im not using vision correctly in general? Im around gold 2/3

Its not a matter of not seeing them on the ward, its just too late by the time i do cause some sorta cc hits me or more often my support and then i die in a forced 2v3