I have been playing 
top or jungle for this whole season. I'm not saying I'm a master at playing her, but I seem to be doing pretty good. I always build her tank, with the build 
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, and I start with her q, then e, then q again, then w, maxing q then e. I usually go at least 6/3 every game. Is there any way to up my skills? Should I try to build damage? I keep hearing that I should get earlier.
sunfire first item against ad, spirit visage first against ap is a pretty basic idea of what you should get first item. iceborn is a nice second for mana, cdr, armour and damage. third item you get the item you didn't buy first (so if you rushed a cape you can go cape > iceborn > visage, if you rushed a visage you can go visage > iceborn > cape) and then after that is just situationals. guardian angel lets you go deep, randuins gives you tankiness, atkspd slow and an ms slow on the active, thornmail makes it so the adc can't just lifesteal tank you.
buy trinity force. steraks or frozen mallet or titanic hydra. into tank. she has good defensive boosts . she gets way more out of 4 tank items than anyone else in the game. also make sure they all have hp.
