So what's fun about feeding in ARURF?

So every time I play URF someone wants to feed their ass off to one person and then say "it's urf". (Side note: it's not urf, urf was the greatest game to transcend time and space this is ARURF a Walmart value brand.) What is that supposed to mean that it's only urf? This game type is supposed to be fun, so how is feeding someone 10 kills then getting 100-0 every time fun to anyone? "Don't be a try hard" tell that to the 90% of people I face who backdoor and won't 1v1 for anything.