Early game bullies are unhealthy to the game, change my mind...

I am specifically talking about top lane, as that is where I play.

If you don't play a meta champ, or another strong early game champ, you simply lose lane without the assistance of your team.

I main Wukong, and at what point does it become fair to play against these champions for 20 minutes?

So if my team isn't doing well in the game, how am I supposed to carry while my head is pressed deep in my ass by these bullies for the first half of the game?

How do I out play them when they can easily out trade me, out sustain me, and control the wave, forcing me to miss gold? Hm, a scaling champion such as Wukong which needs gold for items can't farm because "champion difference". And then when my team isn't doing well, and I can't carry them it is my fault? Although I dealt with a very suppressive lane for 20 minutes, did not feed and tried to play it the best I could... I can't take his tower, I can't push, if I roam they get plate gold now and I miss out on not only gold, but also exp.

Not to mention, the fact that they get so much control over the lane, means that they easily get a gold and exp lead. So these champions that are supposed to fall, are still very strong leading into mid and late game. When I have to lane against these champions I am at the mercy of my team. LITERALLY. If my jungler doesn't gank, I am bound to lose my lane. If my team doesn't snowball, I sure as hell won't be able to.