To expand on some of the other answers a bit...
The BF Sword to start the IE rush is considered the standard build by most ADC mains. With a few exceptions, where you might go for BotRK first. If you watch any ADC streamers you'll see them basically follow this build start every time.
The reason for this is because if you don't come back with a BF sword on your first back, it's unlikely that your opponent will not have a BF Sword. They will then out-trade you in lane and make it difficult for you to keep up.
Miss Fortune has an advantage here as well... her movement speed buff, and attack speed buff, stops you from needing to worry about her boots for a bit longer than most others. So you can damage a bit faster than your opponent.
Also Lifesteal seems to benefit an ADC quite a bit more than armor during mid-game.
Just my two cents. Still doesn't give someone the right to freak out.