How to carry those who just don't seem to want to be?
I cannot tell you guys how many times now I have personally won every single lane for my team in the early game, like they are ALL losing until I show up and my ganks, wards, and general map presence puts us in the lead. Yes, sometimes I have that one lane that does fine and I don't have to worry about them as much, but 90% of the time if I'm not in my teammates lane personally saving them or getting them a kill they will lose, and probably blame me "cause junglers"....
The issue is, when I am pinging every objective we need, giving specific directions on where to ward and move in order to not get caught out, and pinging warnings when I see a teammate(s) wondering into an area they obviously shouldn't be in, and they still refuse to even consider my directions, I have no idea how it is I'm supposed to carry them any further!!!!
I always try to push advantages, but my team would rather farm and ping me off their lanes so I don't steal farm or the best excuse "I'm trying to freeze it!" I also always try to keep wards up so my idiotic teams can actually see the horrendously predictable movements of the enemy teams, but I can only place 4 wards at a time and I usually try to keep it on the side of the map where the enemy team will be going. But ofc even when we see them walk into our jungle and obviously stop in a specific brush since they didn't appear on any of my other wards, I still have that one teammate who will ignore all the warning pings cause they just have to put a ward on that exact brush to see if the enemy team is there! And then they die.... good job getting vision on that team we already knew was in that exact spot cause I pinged them out there!!!!!!
Like it's actually easier to carry diamonds having a bad game then it is to carry these silver morons, and yes I have MANY TIMES, team builder just loves putting me into a match of 9 other diamond players, but I usually get that one bronze 5 who queued in TB with their diamond friends and wants to play adc "cause he can totally carry!" Just another hurdle :/ A lot of my friends are plat and diamond ranked players, and I carry as many games if not more when I'm queued with them then I can when solo Qing...
And finally yes, I am always trying to be as polite and calm as I possibly can, cause yelling at people literally NEVER helps anyone, but after a couple years of being the "nice teammate" I've found that in this elo it doesn't really matter, cause your team won't listen to you anyway...... It's like the best way in this elo to win is to let your lanes fail but just make sure the enemy team doesn't snow ball, cause if you get them all ahead they get over confident and don't ever freakin listen to the one guy who got them all ahead, but if they're behind and I'm not they're more likely to listen to me. And the same goes for the enemy team, when they get ahead, as long as I can keep them from getting too far ahead they will throw the game due to over confidence and with my team actually listening we can push the right objectives at the right time! But getting this nice little spot of "easy carrying" is almost impossible to manufacture without a teammate raging up a storm and ruining everyone's moods and/or feeding or an opponent snowballing just way to hard to keep control of them.
So I understand there is no such thing as "ELO HELL" as lowbies understand it, both teams are equally bad and those of us better them both teams have to just pray your team listens to you and doesn't keep throwing the match! But at the same time I can kind of see where the belief came from, if not from baddies making excuses, cause like I explained above when you get your team ahead all by yourself they will throw while the other team just tries to stall and rally, where as if the enemy team gets ahead you can get your team to stall and rally more easily then it is to finish the freakin game for some stupid reason! So it's like this constant battle where 90% of your chances of winning are almost entirely luck based and whether your team will listen to you or not.....
/rant over