You are scum if you hold players hostage

If you are mid and go 2-11 give the fuck up. It is norms. FF. What is with people NEVER accepting their defeat. It's all ego. People int their lanes and can't accept it so they make the game 40 minutes long. This is the only reason I hate the game so much right now. A loss could be 15 minutes, but it never is !! You get held hostage every single game. In norms too like why? What's wrong with these people