so many people are breaking their backs trying to say this isnt about the fact that theyre gay
this blown up situation is 100% because valamar and kai are gay
theres literally a homophobic thread with 100+ upvotes that proves its about it. you see this thread right here? https://boards.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/c/story-art/AynzcA3s-as-a-husband-changing-varuss-story-has-broken-my-heart-open-letter-to-riot
here's a DIRECT quote from it: "Now what is he? A darkin of revenge that fused two gay lovers together and wants to kill everybody. Wow. What depth."
now i don't know what kinda stuff goes down in gamer fantasy land, but it's pretty obvious that even though you say youre not homophobic, when you're saying homophobic things you're a homophobe. it's literally that simple. this isnt some stupid puzzle from some idiotic game with some secret depth or justified necessary evil kind of thing, this is a real person. he actually wrote that. he actually thinks that because he doesnt see gay relationships as legitimate enough to garnish sympathy (you can see by the 'wow. what depth' comment) because somehow he got it in his head that old varus didnt kill people on the regular (????)
sure, is everyone a raging homophobe? no, but will i believe you if you're saying dumb things like this isnt about the fact that theyre gay? also no. this is a case by case basis that is HEAVILY influenced by the fact that varus old lore was so terrible that its almost incomprehensible that someone could not see the new lore as an improvement is if they just flat out hate gay people. and the people who actually liked old varus lore? they don't care. they know that varus literally had the same story as literally 100s of other fictional characters and was in no way unique at all, so they can just flock over to the next generic lone wolf with nameless dead wife out for revenge
none of you are fooling anyone. all the outsiders see you for what you are.