Gold logic - part 2

Enemy has 3 dead, we have 4 up so we go baron. We finish it off just as respawned enemy jungler and laners arrive to contest. Tf and thresh hop over wall with no vision beyond right behind the baron and engage what's almost for sure a 3v5. We're all around half hp because of baron and need to shop while all 5 enemies are full hp and just shopped (more effective gold). Lose 3 people. Team simply tells tf and thresh they should not be engaging that and should just reset, buy, and push with baron instead of forcing 3v5's when we are low and have no vision. No one flames them; just states what should have been obvious before they baited team into losing 3 barons for no gain.

Well now team is 2v5. They are fed, so I can't stop them getting mid inhib. Instead, I split top - saving tp for when enemy goes on nexus towers and my team should be respawning shortly at that point. I stop their push at just inhib because they have to send 3 top to stop me. I still get a tower and trade 1 for 1 in a 1v3 - through enemy exhaust. Blow multiple enemy sums. My team all respawns and our nexus towers and other inhibs are safe - for the moment since I pulled 3 top. Tf flames me for "feeding" by solo pushing and gaining nothing from it. He says I am costing team the game. Really? Cuz I just stopped their game winning push and got us a tower and TRADED kills on the fed enemy mid. In a 2v5 scenario. Which we were only in because... tf decided to 3v5 int after we got baron and could finally have gotten some pressure.

Other similar moments in that game, but you get the picture. How do these people even reach gold elo with brains like that? How do they STAY in gold elo with brains like that? How do they not see how hypocritical they are? Anyways - I know we all get games like this - with players like that tf. Just tired of about last 10 games being that way and had to vent.