I don't believe my chat logs are punishable.

ManBearPig916··4 votes·3,994 views

Game 1 Pre-Game ManBearPig916: is that brand, morgana bot ManBearPig916: shit, is that vayne top or bot In-Game ManBearPig916: I'm going to need some help ManBearPig916: that's kinda hard to do ManBearPig916: darius is kind of overloaded ManBearPig916: please gank ManBearPig916: he just 100-0 me with like 1 attack and an ulti ManBearPig916: keep talking.... ManBearPig916: it might help you not die to darius later htough ManBearPig916: I did not ManBearPig916: you got yourself muted ManBearPig916: I don't listen to people who threaten to report me ManBearPig916: this entire team is toxic ManBearPig916: look, we can't win when we are threatening reports and flaming eachother ManBearPig916: get a grip ManBearPig916: maybe you could have "ganked a losing lane"? ManBearPig916: and we wouldn't die 2v1 vs him ManBearPig916: please ManBearPig916: please come stop the darius ManBearPig916: he's going all the way to inhib, mr ____ ManBearPig916: are you doing to DO ANYTHING besides report me? ManBearPig916: and? You should be roaming and helping by 15 minutes ManBearPig916: flaming me all game does nobody good ManBearPig916: I got zero ganks and then you threatened to report me for dying all the time ManBearPig916: bro ManBearPig916: you made fun of me ManBearPig916: avoid dying by hiding behind turret with a coin (because I can't trust turret to kill darius if he turret dives) ManBearPig916: you hurt my feelings ManBearPig916: I'm really surprised not 1 other person defended me ManBearPig916: support, mid, jg? ManBearPig916: nobody is stopping ____ from flaming me? ManBearPig916: then you support him ManBearPig916: I'm surprised you all are ok with bullying ManBearPig916: vote yes ManBearPig916: vote yes ManBearPig916: but I didn't feed ManBearPig916: I begged for help, though ManBearPig916: I begged ManBearPig916: repeatedly ManBearPig916: I did ManBearPig916: but he could turret dive with ult ManBearPig916: T.T ManBearPig916: I played poorly because of how you talked to me too ManBearPig916: why are you so mean ManBearPig916: like, tell me why ManBearPig916: why do you have to make people around you unhappy? ManBearPig916: do you have a good answer/ ManBearPig916: you make me unhappy Post-Game ManBearPig916: ____bullied me all game ManBearPig916: please don't report me ManBearPig916: like, I have been insulted every last minute of this game ManBearPig916: by ____ ManBearPig916: I'm so hurt ManBearPig916: he claims he tried to give me advice ManBearPig916: his advice was "get aa coin and hide under tower" ManBearPig916: it didn't take long before darius was tower diving ManBearPig916: he threatened to report me for inting ManBearPig916: and he said he won't ever help me because I'm bad ManBearPig916: he killed me like 3 times under turret

P.S. ____, the bully, is still running around playing without a punishment, and yet I get punished for asking for him to help me and stop making fun of me.

I've done a decent job behaving since I was punished a few months ago, because I don't want my account banned. I met an exceptionally toxic person who tilted me with insults and threats of reports, and I'm clearly upset. It's really upsetting I got punished due to this one single game, and due to this bully's one report.

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Riot's Ticket Response: (They basically justified the ban)

"Hi there,

I know its really frustrating to suddenly get a chat restriction, so hopefully I can shed some light on why this happened and help make sure it doesn't happen again.

I understand it might feel like nothing said here was a serious problem, but the chat in this log is primarily arguing with and criticizing other players. Because these things contribute to a bad experience for everyone in a game, they can lead to a chat restriction.

Though I absolutely get that other people's bad behavior can be really frustrating, our system doesn't choose sides and penalizes negativity whether its in response to others or not. I know this can feel unfair at first, but the reason it works this way is that firing back at other players doesn't do anything to stop them, and very often makes the situation worse. In these situations, your best option is to use the mute button, and report them after the match so we can track their behavior and penalize them if necessary.

Just so you know in the future, all a report does is cause the system to review a game. Any number of reports have this effect, so there's actually no need to ask other players to report someone, and being reported has no effect if you're not using chat negatively.

While I won't be able to remove this restriction or alter your honor, I'm here if you have any more questions and confident you can avoid additional penalties.

(redacted) Player Support"

51 Comments

Chermorg2 votes

You are constantly arguing in this game. If others are being toxic, mute them. Don't add to the toxicity with negativity/arguing of your own.

ManBearPig9161 votes

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You are constantly arguing in this game. If others are being toxic, mute them. Don't add to the toxicity with negativity/arguing of your own.

I'm arguing? my teammate was saying something disagreeable, such as insulting me in multiple ways.

Chermorg2 votes

As I said, it doesn't matter what others are doing/saying. It is fully possible for all 5 players on a team to be in the wrong if all are behaving poorly.

Things like the following are not okay:

ManBearPig916: keep talking.... ManBearPig916: it might help you not die to darius later htough

ManBearPig916: I did not ManBearPig916: you got yourself muted ManBearPig916: I don't listen to people who threaten to report me ManBearPig916: this entire team is toxic

Just mute them. Don't advertise it and don't gloat about it or flame them for being toxic.

ManBearPig916: look, we can't win when we are threatening reports and flaming eachother

(this is fully ok) This is what you should've said instead of the above four lines.

ManBearPig916: get a grip ManBearPig916: maybe you could have "ganked a losing lane"? ManBearPig916: and we wouldn't die 2v1 vs him

Passive aggressiveness isn't generally the best way to handle things, and it's almost never okay. Sarcastic comments are rude and not helpful.

ManBearPig916: are you doing to DO ANYTHING besides report me? ManBearPig916: and? You should be roaming and helping by 15 minutes

Blaming and insulting them for flaming you.

ManBearPig916: flaming me all game does nobody good ManBearPig916: I got zero ganks and then you threatened to report me for dying all the time

More arguing.

ManBearPig916: bro ManBearPig916: you made fun of me ManBearPig916: avoid dying by hiding behind turret with a coin (because I can't trust turret to kill darius if he turret dives) ManBearPig916: you hurt my feelings ManBearPig916: I'm really surprised not 1 other person defended me

Nobody's really inclined to defend you while you're adding to the arguing and negativity.

ManBearPig916: support, mid, jg? ManBearPig916: nobody is stopping from flaming me? ManBearPig916: then you support him ManBearPig916: I'm surprised you all are ok with bullying

Arguing still, and flaming everyone else for being "ok with bullying" (which is a lie - more than likely they muted him and don't even see him bullying you).

ManBearPig916: vote yes ManBearPig916: vote yes

Pressuring people to surrender.

ManBearPig916: I played poorly because of how you talked to me too

So mute them.

ManBearPig916: why are you so mean ManBearPig916: like, tell me why ManBearPig916: why do you have to make people around you unhappy? ManBearPig916: do you have a good answer/ ManBearPig916: you make me unhappy

More harassing/arguing of the other player. Just because they started it does not make it okay.

Manslayer2 votes

He's trying to bring his teammate back who is being negative towards him. He is not arguing, he is pleaing for them to leave him alone. Yeah sure, there is a little bit in the middle there where he gets a little "snappy" but seriously? They're already, from what it sounds like, down that rabbit hill and he maintained his composure in the best way possible. Riot made a mistake, simple as that.

ManBearPig9162 votes

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He's trying to bring his teammate back who is being negative towards him. He is not arguing, he is pleaing for them to leave him alone. Yeah sure, there is a little bit in the middle there where he gets a little "snappy" but seriously? They're already, from what it sounds like, down that rabbit hill and he maintained his composure in the best way possible. Riot made a mistake, simple as that.

I think my account is more sensitive to punishment due to my history of toxicity.

Manslayer1 votes

Again, please open up a ticket with Riot. This is, in my eyes, every type of mistake. Chermorg will argue against me, say how stupid and wrong I am for believing that you are NOT guilty. You aren't guilty, open that ticket, keep it active, voice your opinion to Riot and get rid of that "negative 10 day chat restriction".

Chermorg3 votes

He is free to mute, which is the only appropriate solution to getting someone to leave him alone. Adding to negativity by drawing attention to that negativity is not okay.

This is not a mistake. I would not want to play with someone who talked like that all game. Most other players would also not want that player in their game. Negativity is not okay just because someone else started it or was being more negative.

Manslayer4 votes

This is disgusting, straight up. I can not believe the amount of nothings you are allowed to say, and you just are okay with this? How can you be okay with this? Who is OKAY WITH THIS? This is starting to aggravate me reading anything you type and have an "advisor" tag on your name. You have zero empathy, zero ability to add context between the lines.

I can count how many lines he has typed, and only a handful are "negative". All 5 can be wrong? How can all 5 people be wrong, if 4 people are bulling you, with actions and words, you can only stop one of them. How much can a human take before he is allowed to defend himself in this game? Tell me, how is this? This is exactly the type of behavior that angers me in games, I don't accept people's bullshit, I choose to defend myself, I have that right, he is HARDLY EVEN DOING THAT! He is essentially stating, he is unhappy, distressed and they're not helping. And I'll choose to defend this guy, regardless of consequence.

Chermorg2 votes

You have the right to defend yourself. The proper defense is muting and reporting.

Arguing back does absolutely nothing - as you can see the other player did not stop flaming/abusing OP, and all it did was turn one negative player into two for the rest of the team to have to deal with.

DearPear6 votes

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This is disgusting, straight up. I can not believe the amount of nothings you are allowed to say, and you just are okay with this? How can you be okay with this? Who is OKAY WITH THIS? This is starting to aggravate me reading anything you type and have an "advisor" tag on your name. You have zero empathy, zero ability to add context between the lines.

Because the majority of the players simply DON'T WANT these behaviors in their games. Period.

Do you guys have empathy for people like me who wants to enjoy a game without all that craptalking?

Be nice or be gone.

ManBearPig9162 votes

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Because the majority of the players simply DON'T WANT these behaviors in their games. Period.

Do you guys have empathy for people like me who wants to enjoy a game without all that craptalking?

Be nice or be gone.

Well, from my experience, the majority of players cower down when someone begins bullying another, and while they might like a silent game, they certainly make an exception to let a bully continue to run his mouth all game. They're certainly quick to tell a poor performing player who is being bullied to shut up, though (It's certainly easier on you to pick the victim to advertise silence to). It's because y'all don't want to feel the unrest of telling a bully to stop bullying. There isn't as much unrest in telling a victim to shut up.

Chermorg3 votes

No, they didn't make any exception, they likely muted the guy bullying you, which is what you should've done.

You act as if there's no mute button in the game - there is, and that's the proper response to toxicity - not arguing back and continuing the negativity.

DearPear5 votes

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Well, from my experience, the majority of players cower down when someone begins bullying another, and while they might like a silent game, they certainly make an exception to let a bully continue to run his mouth all game.

Unlike IRL where you CAN'T avoid the school bully or whatever, you actually have a mute button that will prevent the bully to have any further impact on you AND a report button to have him punished for his misbehavior.

So yeah. What are you actually achieving by "defending the bullied" besides adding negativity to an already dire game?

Manslayer2 votes

Yet, in my eyes, he is not being mean, or even that negative. He is literally asking for people to NOT attack him, and gets attacked, then from the sounds of it more people jump on the bandwagon. If you are so opposed to being against negative behavior how about the actual instigating guys get punished and the victim not.

This game disgusts me, you all disgust me.

Paíntchip2 votes

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You are constantly arguing in this game. If others are being toxic, mute them. Don't add to the toxicity with negativity/arguing of your own.

And you are constantly coming down on the side of the toxic trolls that cause the problems instead of demanding it gets fixed. And that Riot starts going after the behavior that tilts people instead.

Chermorg1 votes

The behavior demonstrated by OP tilts people - namely the three innocent and uninvolved players on their team.

Riot went after OP because their behavior tilts people. So..

ManBearPig9162 votes

I've never seen pregame chat before? Am I punished for saying the "S" word in Pre-Game? My in-game chat was not mean, it was not griefing, it was me talking to someone who called me bad names, was asking for everyone to report me, and gave me advice like "buy an ancient coin and hide under turret, stop dying," as well as "we won't gank for you because your lane is lost."

Aneirin2 votes

No - you can't be punished simply for swearing.

Gear Jammer1 votes

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I've never seen pregame chat before? Am I punished for saying the "S" word in Pre-Game? My in-game chat was not mean, it was not griefing, it was me talking to someone who called me bad names, was asking for everyone to report me, and gave me advice like "buy an ancient coin and hide under turret, stop dying," as well as "we won't gank for you because your lane is lost."

No cursing is fine as long as not directed as an insult to another player

I AM VBAD2 votes

'report' is a word they punish for

Manslayer3 votes

Yeah well, Riot needs to open their damn eyes.

I AM VBAD2 votes

yup

Chermorg4 votes

Riot does not punish for words, but for behaviors. Saying the word report will not result in a punishment of a log magically because it has the word in it. Calling for reports on others repetitively is harassment and punishable, however.

ManBearPig9162 votes

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Riot does not punish for words, but for behaviors. Saying the word report will not result in a punishment of a log magically because it has the word in it. Calling for reports on others repetitively is harassment and punishable, however.

I didn't call on anybody to report anybody else. In fact, this teammate told everybody else to report me and told me he would report me. He is not punished. I am. He hurt my feelings. I told him he hurt my feelings. I get punished for telling him he hurt my feelings.

Chermorg3 votes

Saying you're reporting others is the same as calling for reports. You're throwing a big advert out there saying "this player deserves reported". Phrasing it as "I'm reporting" versus "Please report" doesn't make it any different.

You were punished for the fact that you took the entire game to argue with him. Not because you said "you hurt my feelings" once.

ManBearPig9163 votes

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Saying you're reporting others is the same as calling for reports. You're throwing a big advert out there saying "this player deserves reported". Phrasing it as "I'm reporting" versus "Please report" doesn't make it any different.

You were punished for the fact that you took the entire game to argue with him. Not because you said "you hurt my feelings" once.

Not once do I say I am going to report anybody. Reread the chat log. The closest thing to that is when I said "ManBearPig916: bullied me all game ManBearPig916: please don't report me ManBearPig916: like, I have been insulted every last minute of this game ManBearPig916: by ____"

Chermorg2 votes

You are constantly accusing him of punishable behavior.. I'm presuming you reported him. Apologies for not being as clear as I should have.

Hopefully this is more clear:

Any form of "pointing" or "calling" out toxic behavior is not okay, as it constitutes harassment and increases the negativity. The entire game your chat was focused on either harassing the other player, arguing with the other player, or pressuring others to surrender. That's not acceptable behavior in League.

ManBearPig9161 votes

{quoted}

You are constantly accusing him of punishable behavior.. I'm presuming you reported him. Apologies for not being as clear as I should have.

Hopefully this is more clear:

Any form of "pointing" or "calling" out toxic behavior is not okay, as it constitutes harassment and increases the negativity. The entire game your chat was focused on either harassing the other player, arguing with the other player, or pressuring others to surrender. That's not acceptable behavior in League.

I have issues muting people (toxic people) in ranked games when there's a greater advantage leaving a toxic player unmuted so that you could still coordinate teamplay with them than you'd gain by muting them and not having the ability to coordinate team plays with them anymore.

Aneirin1 votes

Except by responding constantly in chat you're making it likely for your team to mute you instead/as well.

Chermorg1 votes
  1. By responding, you make one toxic and unhelpful player into two.

  2. By muting, you save yourself from tilting - you definitely weren't helping your team as much as you could have this game.

Let me ask you this - when's the last time you arguing with someone ever actually helped? Hint: Never.

DearPear2 votes

{quoted}

I have issues muting people (toxic people) in ranked games when there's a greater advantage leaving a toxic player unmuted so that you could still coordinate teamplay with them than you'd gain by muting them and not having the ability to coordinate team plays with them anymore.

Then don't make a fuss when all you see from this unmuted person is trashtalking. You chose to keep him unmuted.

Also, let's be real, how often do toxic players actually provide relevant communication in regard to team coordination?

I AM VBAD2 votes

o sorry. i meant they punish for the behavior of saying the word 'report'

Chermorg2 votes

Again, not true at all.

I'll frequently remind players "hey, just report them at the end and mute them now" if they look like they're getting tilted. I have never been punished.

I AM VBAD3 votes

i strongly recommend you word that differently. that phrase is 100% reportable

Chermorg3 votes

Everything's reportable.

If you say that phrase once and don't use it to harass others, it is not punishable.

I AM VBAD2 votes

i agree with you there. if you didnt say any other toxic things you will probably be ok. but why risk it?

Chermorg1 votes

Because there is literally no risk in that phrase. It is not prohibited to use the word report.

Manslayer2 votes

Don't type, that's not reportable... maybe.

P4ppino1 votes

You can type, just don't be toxic, that's all.

ManBearPig9162 votes

I'm just really upset that I reform, shut up, and behave for a few weeks since I unlocked my honor, and then this guy rallies my team to report me and belittle me. One game, it's all over, and I'm charged with unsportsmanlike conduct because I was upset with another person's bullying and I told him so. Now, my honor is locked up, I cannot communicate with people in ranked games, and this other guy is still playing, with his behavior justified with a lack of punishment and probably a message telling him that someone he reported got punished. Why did I even behave better for this entire month if Riot will take it away with a single game within which I didn't do anything toxic. I absorbed mental abuse from teammates and told him I felt bad and BOOM! I'm punished. Don't mind me asking for assistance in the game. Asking for assistance more than once, telling people you feel bad after they try to make you feel bad, and having a bad score gets you punished.

P4ppino1 votes

I just don't get why you asked the other ppl on your team to defend you. That's just super lame, and it puts those ppl off too, and now they can't focus on the game properly. You should not put ppl on the spot like that, just play your own game and you'll be fine.

Im0nAcid1 votes

You're lucky, what got me reported was calling him a toxic 'ancestor to humans' (ape) after being called every name in the book

The Nocturne God1 votes

Don't say the word "report," it is a trigger.

SweetRainTv1 votes

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Manslayer1 votes

So you should update what they send you in the support ticket here. I'd like to know how this turns out.

CharDeeMcDenniz1 votes

people are so quick to point the finger and try to deflect

there's a reason that you only see your chat lines when you get punished...it doesn't matter what ANYONE else in the game says or does, it's all about how you handle it

amazing how many people dont get that simple concept

"but but but THAT guy was saying mean things or not playing the game up to my standards so I should be allowed to yell and cry about it!"

ManBearPig9161 votes

So, Riot ends up justifying the ban.

"Hi there,

I know its really frustrating to suddenly get a chat restriction, so hopefully I can shed some light on why this happened and help make sure it doesn't happen again.

I understand it might feel like nothing said here was a serious problem, but the chat in this log is primarily arguing with and criticizing other players. Because these things contribute to a bad experience for everyone in a game, they can lead to a chat restriction.

Though I absolutely get that other people's bad behavior can be really frustrating, our system doesn't choose sides and penalizes negativity whether its in response to others or not. I know this can feel unfair at first, but the reason it works this way is that firing back at other players doesn't do anything to stop them, and very often makes the situation worse. In these situations, your best option is to use the mute button, and report them after the match so we can track their behavior and penalize them if necessary.

Just so you know in the future, all a report does is cause the system to review a game. Any number of reports have this effect, so there's actually no need to ask other players to report someone, and being reported has no effect if you're not using chat negatively.

While I won't be able to remove this restriction or alter your honor, I'm here if you have any more questions and confident you can avoid additional penalties.

(redacted) Player Support"

ºKurisu Makiseº1 votes

You and I.. and millions of others are in the same boat. Bullying is not 'encouraged' per say in League of Legends.. but it is enabled. The fact is multiplied when you put premade bullying into the equation. This board is brimming with angry people and you know misery loves company. I've seen this same "advisor" on similar forum topics shooting them all down with the same response.

How someone so lacking in sympathy, empathy and integrity can maintain a position is repulsive. Victim blaming is a trend to displace accountability when it comes to forum moderators/advisors. They're not all this lacking.. but take a look at most recent post and more than half are hateful and spite the alleged violator.

Shame..

[sg-poppy]

Manslayer1 votes

I know, it is very silly in my opinion.

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