I've read that article... id asking for reports is reportable, how can you tell someone to report someone?
You don't tell other people to report another person. There's literally no need to do so. 1 report carries the same weight as 9, ergo there is no reason for you to ask for reports.
I told the player what they should have done in that situation. That is constructive. Saying scrub means someone is bad. If I said to them "You are bad. If you do this, you will be better.", would that be toxic?
Let's take a look at you chat logs, I'll post some of the highlights.
JhomasTefferson: scrub ahri
JhomasTefferson: she chased azir for no reason and died
JhomasTefferson: when i had the kill secured without her
JhomasTefferson: there was no reason for her to be there
JhomasTefferson: so she was just feeding
JhomasTefferson: she is scrub
JhomasTefferson: report ahri
JhomasTefferson: feeding
JhomasTefferson: if ahri had pinged
JhomasTefferson: maybe i would have lived
JhomasTefferson: but we have a scrub midlane
JhomasTefferson: so it happens
JhomasTefferson: still didnt ping missing
JhomasTefferson: ur laner is the reason we lost
JhomasTefferson: you intentionally fed
JhomasTefferson: its on you
JhomasTefferson: end of story
JhomasTefferson: once ahri admits shes wrong ill stop arguing
JhomasTefferson: report ahri after game
JhomasTefferson: and most deaths
JhomasTefferson: she fed
JhomasTefferson: yeah
JhomasTefferson: and because of that shes fed the most gold
JhomasTefferson: she fed
JhomasTefferson: im right, she fed the most gold
JhomasTefferson: gold matters
JhomasTefferson: and shes fed the mosty
JhomasTefferson: so she needs to be reported
JhomasTefferson: i still wuldnt have fed as much
JhomasTefferson: youre a special kind of stupid
JhomasTefferson: the more kills you get the more gold ur worth
Looking at your op.gg I found the game you're talking about, you went 1/8/2 on J4, meanwhile Ahir went 8/10/5. That means that Ahri was part of 10 more kills on your team than you were. Not only that, but she tripled your damage and warded just as much as you did. I have a hard time believing that Ahri is an intentional feeder.
JhomasTefferson: ekko ur noob
JhomasTefferson: ekko is noob
JhomasTefferson: i know im good
JhomasTefferson: and im jg main so i know a good jg would have ganked by now
JhomasTefferson: u were just pushed for 3 min
JhomasTefferson: cuz ur a noob
JhomasTefferson: noob ekko ganky by coming thru lane
JhomasTefferson: we canty win cuz of noob jg
JhomasTefferson: no drag control
JhomasTefferson: we flamed when we realized hes shit jg
JhomasTefferson: and flamingg ashe for having lag
JhomasTefferson: wish i had a jg
JhomasTefferson: who knew how to gank
JhomasTefferson: fucking coming thru lane
JhomasTefferson: ekko
JhomasTefferson: gtfo
JhomasTefferson: thank ekko azir
JhomasTefferson: report ekko
JhomasTefferson: absentee jg
JhomasTefferson: for having a shit jg i think were doing pretty well
JhomasTefferson: Ekko shi t jg
JhomasTefferson: no drag control
JhomasTefferson: Ekko, ur the bad one
JhomasTefferson: u dont know how to jg, thats why yas got fed
JhomasTefferson: taliyah outganked u bot
JhomasTefferson: ur not better than me
JhomasTefferson: nahh, im not salty
JhomasTefferson: i know im good
JhomasTefferson: just didnt have a good jg this game
JhomasTefferson: and u guys did
JhomasTefferson: so you win
JhomasTefferson: ekko started it tho
JhomasTefferson: ekko, you made this
JhomasTefferson: game shit,
JhomasTefferson: now lie in ur bed
JhomasTefferson: he deserves as much wasted time as possible
In both chat logs, there is no constructive criticism what so ever. All you do is go off on your team and talk about how they're trash and blame them for your losses. In the second log, you keep your team hostage because you want to punish the ekko for being bad? So instead of trying to de escalate the situation, you just make it worse by antagonizing your fellow teammates? How does that help anyone? I'll give you the answer, it doesn't. If you just shut your mouth and play the game, you're much more likely to win.
I wasn't toxic,
Yes, you were. It's actually quite obvious.
unless calling someone an asshole or saying fuck you once and calling them a scrub for feeding is toxic, which if it is, the community needs thicker skin.
While I agree with you that the community needs a bit thicker skin, the community also needs to stop being such assholes. There's a reason why so many people won't touch this game because of the toxic community.
Why is there so much sympathy for an INTENTIONAL FEEDER?
No one is defending the feeder (which I don't think she was given the amount of damage and her kill participation) saying you were wrong doesn't mean that we are defending that Ahri, If she was actually feeding, then you both are in the wrong and both deserve to be punished. The two aren't mutually exclusive.