"Is that person trying to say that im so fucking braindead that i can forget to use that feature that pops up into my fucking face after every bloody game?"
How do you like this take? Quite easy to take it negatively, right?
There are honestly only a scant few people out there who would take it that way. It's much easier to take it positively, or at the very least neutrally. Responses like "Oh, yeah, we can go up in Honor faster with that team bonus, cool", or "Eh, sure I guess, we'll see" are much more likely than a response like your example, where it's taken as a grievous insult.
Begging for honors is a nice way to tell people that you dont deserve to get honored.
Except they're not begging for Honors. In case you didn't read the post, the OP was asking about giving a kind an unobtrusive reminder that the Team Honor Bonus exists - they wouldn't ask for people to Honor them in specific, they just want players to Honor each other for the team's benefit overall.
People honoring everyone cuz they have to grind honor is a good sigh that system is being abused atm or does not work at all. Cuz i doubt that this is how its supposed to work.
What if it's not about the grind? What if it's about general kindness and the want to help others in some small, invisible way?
There's no way for the Honor System to be abused right now, and it's working perfectly fine. Believe it or not, Riot wants players to Honor one another. That's the whole purpose of the Team Honor Bonus and the big Honor Ceremony pop-up post-match - to get players to Honor one another.