Asking "Why?" when people mess up will get you no where.

This is just a short rant I want to put out there. So yeah bear with me if you are reading this.

Say you're in the middle of any game, for the sake of argument say that you are running.... top against a. Now for sake of argument and also not considering how this match typically goes, let's say 10 minutes in you feed 2 kills. Your team mates are probably gonna be annoyed if you heroic charge Riven into the tower for the third time, take some tower shots, and give her a kill because she managed to get 1 auto off on you before you died. This is the part where you see this in chat.

(take note that these are random fake usernames I made up) yourmomsballs: omg why SaltyPlayer69: why poppy? [all]RivenDerp: haha u suck yourmomsballs: omg why [all] SaltyPlayer69: ikr yourmomsballs: omg why yourmomsballs: omg why yourmomsballs: omg why???????

"Why?" The question I feel has no real answer when asked in chat. Because there is no answer that is going to make someone happy once it is asked. The person is already on tilt, and is so mad that they don't see on of 2 (or 3) obvious answers.

1-The person took the action they did, because they thought it would be of benefit to the game. 2-They are trolling. **3-Maybe they are having connection issues, who knows.

If the person is just waltzing under the tower or standing still in lane and letting themselves get autoed, it's probobly option 2 or 3 I presented. So when it comes down to option 1, what are we getting when we shout out "why" in chat? Nine times out of then regardless of the answer given, the players next action is likely to just go and complain in all chat about how their team mates are feeding. In their eyes, your already the bad guy under option 1, when the move you made to genuinely try to influence the game in a positive way fails. So my question to ask then, is why bother. A Tryndamere popping his ult too soon, or Nami healing you and accidentally stealing the kill, or a Soraka ulting for heal a half a second too late while trying to time it to get the bonus heal, are if nothing else, an honest attempt to play the game well.

A variation of this situation I find rather funny, is when someone asks.... "why did you feed?"

Yes yes, they phrase the question immediately assuming the feeding was intentional. As if the person was about to admit to trolling as to provide further evidence for a tribunal review. They only other possible answer to give to this (which I've sarcastically stated a few times in chat.) "Yes, you see I have a plan. I'm trying to discover a secret reverse scaling passive with Morgana. My theory is that if you give her 5 kills in the 1st ten minutes, she will actually start to loose ap by lategame. It's a secret passive that they snuck in with the 5.22 patch to further nerf mages into the ground. Trust me this is a legitimate strategy I am trying."