can you guys at least say believable things? like 1 i flame sometimes but i am smart enough to not get banned, 2 i used to flame but not anymore 3 i got a single ban or few but improved my behavior since then (aka flaming much less, not flaming at all is impossible)
Are you saying I should lie to you because my behavior doesn't match your perception of how things must be?
I don't flame. I never flamed. I have not been banned or punished.
I sometimes get annoyed, and may express that annoyance in ways that are not flaming. I may sometimes say "this jungler just isn't very good -- we can't rely on him" to a premade teammate over voice chat. About the worst I say is "This guy is just an asshole. Mute him and let's refocus" again over voice chat. Would that earn a chat restriction if typed out? Unlikely -- it's not great (i.e. if reported I'd have a few points on my profile), but even then it's a very rare behavior that would almost certainly be off my record by the time it happens again.
That's the thing to keep in mind: the system does give some leeway if you're occasionally a bit frustrated or a bit snarky. Most players don't flame, but some do get frustrated here and there. The system has built-in tolerance for a modest amount of frustration expressed infrequently and with minor severity. So most players don't get punishments, and most of that is not what we'd call "flaming."