How is it that

I get told on a DAILY basis to kill myself, drink bleach, die of cancer, uninstall, that im a stupid ft nr, and generally get flamed and berated (all primarily by premades) but none of these people ever even get so much as a chat restriction (I never see that pop-up that tells you someone got punished), yet I can get chat restrictions without throwing as much as a single insult...?

I'm not saying "ooh I donlt deserve it", quite the opposite, I can be douchy, especially on days my depression is fucking with me, but I'm saying if they're so strict towards me when I don't even throw insults (maybe at the very worst I'll call someone an asshole then mute them), why do the people that say shit 100x worse than I've ever said get away scott free every single time?