does this make anyone else's blood boil?

it be lìke that··4 votes·1,158 views

So generally, i can handle all types of toxicity, but the one that gets me is when, they just say bitchy passive aggressive things, that don't really warrant a mute, but they keep going and going and going, (they are usually performing horribly and in this case are actually the reason we lost)

The team, just politely ignores this person then BAM, they drop the passive aggressive, start hardcore flaming, blaming everyone else. Then someone snaps (was me this time) and just goes "shut up and fucking play dude. holy"

THEN BAM! "/all chat report amumu for flaming me. been talking shit all game. im trying my hardest"

it actually tilts me to the moon. i want to pick up my computer, and throw it into an active volcano.

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BLACK REALM GOD3 votes

any time you say that words "it makes me want to" or any form of it you're lying to yourself to validate your actions. people have no control over your emotions or actions. even when threatening your life you choose what you do. so first i would suggest learning to control your own emotions and behaviors then i would suggest you dont give them any attention because telling someone to report you in all chat just validated your report against them for harassment if you dont say anything passive aggressive or negative back to them.

learn the rules - then learn how to use them to your advantage. that's life.

it be lìke that1 votes

you are right, i was actually ready to begin my pilgrimage to find a fucking volcano. Thanks for the insight into my tainted mind, doc.

Deep Terror Nami2 votes

Why do you not mute the kind that gets to you? Seems counter-productive.

it be lìke that2 votes

its complicated, because i always think "well they aren't too bad. maybe they will stfu and we can get this going"

i give the benefit of the doubt way too much with it. but omfg. it tilts me.

and even if i do mute, its the people who spam "?" on you every 3 seconds. no matter what you are doing, because they want you to go 1v5 steal the objective from the people they fed.

scazzman1 votes

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its complicated, because i always think "well they aren't too bad. maybe they will stfu and we can get this going"

i give the benefit of the doubt way too much with it. but omfg. it tilts me.

and even if i do mute, its the people who spam "?" on you every 3 seconds. no matter what you are doing, because they want you to go 1v5 steal the objective from the people they fed.

be VERY careful when leaving people unmuted. often. passive aggressiveness can be a sign of people trying to rile you up in order to get a retalitatory response for the purpose of reporting you. otherwise known as flamebaiting

it be lìke that1 votes

not even sure why thats a real thing.

scazzman1 votes

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not even sure why thats a real thing.

it's a form of trolling

Maximum Morde2 votes

Because the message that shows you got someone punished is like an IV filed with exctasy.

JinPendragon1 votes

Mainlining negativity... that's about par for the course

Maximum Morde1 votes

XD, Misery loves company.

it be lìke that1 votes

i never get the message, even with the people i feel massively deserve it the most.

but when i do, its like i maiinlined some cheesecake coded with ecstasy while getting my deepest darkest fantasies with T-swift realized.

scazzman1 votes

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not even sure why thats a real thing.

its because thier logic is "you suck if i can get you banned i wont be matched with you again"

XinZhao2WinNhao1 votes

I don't even get why saying "shut up and fucking play dude, holy" should be reportable in the first place. Yes, there are curse words in there. But given League of Legends' target audience and T rating, curse words should not be an issue. It's another way to say "pls be quiet and play".

Shloonz1 votes

It is an insult and if i would have a jurisdiction insurance for paying my lawyer i would sue everyone saying it. The audience does not matter, it is insulting to "people"... yes i know it is tough to understand there are actually people behind the screen playing the champ.

It might be another way of saying it.. still it is rude. If i would say: "just gtfo and hope you get cancer" might be another way of saying "Please der Sir, we both might feel more relief when our communication ceases so i can concentrate on the game"... it is still not polite and i would never say that or wish it to someone.

XinZhao2WinNhao2 votes

"just gtfo and hope you get cancer" is wishing a horrible disease on someone. It's not the same as telling someone to stop typing arguments and just play the game.

"shut up and just play the fucking game" is telling someone who's probably busy typing bullshit to get his shit together and actually do something useful in the game. It's not an insult. It's practically the same as my friends telling me to "get my shit together and fucking study" when I complain about a bad grade. It is actually respectful that they are treating me like an adult and telling me to take responsibility rather than saying "oh its just the teachers fault for not being a good teacher" etc. There is 1 person I can change, and it's me. Most of the time the teacher is actually fine and I'm just being lazy, however, even if the teacher is bad, if I can't drop the class, I have to still try my best to study and do well.

When I tell someone who is arguing with someone else to "shut up and play the game" it's because I believe that they are capable of being a better person and not letting the troll drag them down to their level.

oSEXYPLATYPUSo1 votes

Nunu can make his teams blood boil

Deiviz1 votes

I hope you find solace in complaining about people that complain.

Shloonz1 votes

Comments like that... I hope you find solace in complaining passive agressive about complaining about people that complain.

deathgod51 votes

I know the feeling, I have learned to mute them

Shloonz1 votes

I totally understand. I happened to me yesterday 2 of 3 matches and today in the first match i played. i am so done with this community and will mute everyone from now on.

Those 20-30% of b's ruin the whole game.

Bruised Ego1 votes

Honestly, just /mute all in low elo.

They rarely communicate anything of value, (flash timers, ward placements, prepping objectives). Half the time that they open up their chat box it's to be toxic in one form or another.

Dominick Destine1 votes

Nunu ?

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