Don't feel bad, glorify yourself in the cancer shields,peels,disengage/engages and mobility you provide for the team that render their fed team useless.
Anyway in the past support role was really iffy,uselessish,troll,easy to flame and blame 0 sight stones(wards)? sigh, blame sup ks once and taking all my (1) cs at turret when I'm still at fountain, and you also had like a 98% chance of never ever getting honored, practically a slave to just your adc.
Now getting that old honor, was a real great fun effort since it was very satisfying but very hard to earn since the standards weren't just a single of the below but a combined effort where the enemy can honor you too. so yeah nowadays If I'm bot and not a single person on my team carried(not on an ez champ),flashy, or was friendly I generally just honor who laned with me or no 1 if every1 was toxic,rude,unhelpful.