why do people believe they should be free from any negativity in LOL?

JAGMAG·7/6/2015, 6:31:19 PM·2 votes·455 views

we learn behavior threw others reaction to us if we do something acceptable people react positively if we do something not acceptable people react negitivitly. im not saying flaming is good but if you dive a turret 1v3 and your teammates is like wtf why did you do that? and you reply with "reported for toxic" really pls grow up a bit look at the situation say something like my bad shouldn't have dived a tower 1v3 to many people in this game get butt hurt at even slight negativity once again im not saying flaming im saying anything that is not praising them

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Slamurai Jack7/6/2015, 6:52:36 PM4 votes

I'm not calling you worthless because I particularly don't like you, I'm calling you worthless because you're 0/7 and are completely incapable of having a positive impact for our team in this game. A Nasus that is 0/7 with 130 stacks at 30 minutes and dies instantly every fight is worthless, I'm not going to sugarcoat it for you. You don't want me to say mean things about you? Then don't play like you're trolling. I can handle some feeding, but when you've died to your enemy laner 7 times by 15 minutes without being ganked, I'm probably going to say something, especially if you dare to try and blame somebody else.

Jubbinaut7/6/2015, 9:58:53 PM4 votes

No one expects rainbows and unicorn farts. But there's a difference between being a jerk and being critical.

A person who is being critical will seek to ensure that any negative comment they make is as constructive as they can make it, because criticism is premised on helping another improve.

A person who is being a jerk will allow any negative comment they make to be as negative as they can, because their goal is to feel superior.

This is the difference between pulling another up and pushing them down.

Grashnim7/6/2015, 6:34:13 PM2 votes

Millennials, they got trophies for participation, they aren't used to the cold hard reality of life.

Bunny Bells7/6/2015, 7:28:51 PM1 votes

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We learn behavior through others reactions to us**.** If we do something acceptable people will react positively. If we do something not acceptable people react negatively. I'm not saying flaming is good, but if you dive a turret 1v3 and your teammates are like "wtf why did you do that?" , and you reply with "reported for toxic" (frag.) . Really please grow up a bit**, and** look at the situation**.** Say something like**, "My bad. Shouldn't have dived a tower 1v3."** Too many people in this game get butt hurt at even the slightest negativity**. O**nce again I'm not saying flaming, I'm saying anything that is not praising them. (What is this last sentence even . . . ?)

Ugh. Now it's legible.

Better question is, why do people feel like they are free to be jerks?

There is always a better way to tell someone they messed up. To be honest, "wtf why did you do that?" is neither constructive, nor is it pleasant to read. I know I made a mistake when I died diving 1v3, so I don't need some random person giving me hell for it.