Why people should stop giving others crap about being bad.

Ultimate Snipe··23 votes·1,759 views

I'll admit, I'm not very good at this game. I am a horrible decision-maker, don't have time to get better, and I'm 1-5 in my promos(OMW to Bronze V...lmao). But that doesn't stop me from having fun when I play LoL, and what I hate more than anything isn't that people tell me I am bad, but how they say it. Before you keep raging at people and blame everyone but yourself, hear me out:

Firstly, no one's getting better when you rage. The game's not going to change if you rage. Why not give constructive criticism? Tell someone what they're doing wrong so they don't do it again. If they ignore you, tell them you're trying to help. Don't start slamming your keyboard like a toddler throwing a tantrum. Yea, that's what we see when you're toxic. A little kid who can't control himself. So try to teach or learn from mistakes rather than making the person play worse.

Secondly, if the person is so "trash", why are you in their elo? Maybe there's one game where one person is just really bad, but if you keep finding yourself being a jerk there's a problem with you. You're not as good as you think if everyone is so bad. And don't be a hypocrite. When someone messes up and you're doing worse than them don't try to blame your mistakes on them.

Thirdly, It's a game. I'm sorry if someone wasted 30 minutes of your life being a bad player, but it's only 30 minutes. You live a life averaging 70 years. Live with it. And why does it matter if someone sucks? To quote Sky Williams, "Elo ain't gonna pay the bills!" While you're sitting here raging and not having a life, that other person is actually doing stuff. Maybe president of a club. Star of the high school football team. And when they lead a good life where will you be? If you're in their elo, certainly not in the LCS. All that time playing a game with no tangible reward will fall upon you when you're 30 without a job. Don't rage because they're bad. Being bad at a game is not going to determine your entire life, unless you spend all your time playing it.

Lastly, just remember most people average a 50% win rate-even me. If you can't live with losing half of your games, uninstall. This game is meant to be fun, and so if you are not going to have fun for around half of the time you are missing the point. Remember-you have bad games too. One game won't define a player's skill if they fall behind due to mistakes. They've probably been fed and carried a game. You just weren't there.

In conclusion, LoL community, I play this game to have fun. Please don't ruin it by caring too much about a video game. There is just so much about this community that is so horrible. And we need the Tribunal back to help. Peace, Ultimate Snipe

29 Comments

Gwellaouen4 votes

Peace.

It's sad that, sometime, I fear to be trash talk when I am doing bad. I fear to be call a noob or anything else. I just want to have fun. I don't want to win a prize money or anything. When people trash talk to me, I have no fun anymore. I remember one time playing Bard or another time playing Kalista in an ARAM game and called, for the latter, the worst Kalista NA. I was certainly supposed to be good because she is OP. Now, I fear playing them again ...

I practice Kalista for fun in a custom game but I fear going to teambuilder.

Your toughts help me. Thank you. ^^

Have fun for all your future games !

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

Thanks! I hope you get better at Kalista too :)

Kapn Khaos3 votes

preach <3

DarthSpectrum3 votes

I agree with most of your points and that it certainly is not beneficial to rage at a bad player; however, playing with such a person may also be extremely frustrating from the perspective of the 4 other people on the team.

It simply is not possible to ignore a player who is doing poorly. Especially if he or she feeds a snow balling champion, the ramification of that individual's skill - or lack of- affects the entire team.

Still, by no means it gives a green light for other people to harass that player, but it shouldn't also allow for that player to queue in knowing that he or she will likely drag down the rest of the team.

Everyone else is probably trying their best to win, and so should you. If you don't have a lot of time for League, consider mastering easy champions such as Garen or Annie to fall back on before moving on to more risky ones.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

Yes, I agree, but the thing is that a player who seems to be doing bad may just be having a bad game. I'm sure you can think of a time you were that guy, and instead of getting tips, you were probably raged at. It's happened to everybody. If you can't ignore them, then tell them what they're doing wrong.

COWmanLord2 votes

No matter how badly you or your teammate does just remember.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlBiLNN1NhQ

Karlyr2 votes

Afterchat of a ranked game.

Me : Report Ziggs for negative attitude Ziggs : Report me !? Ziggs : For having doubled the damage of our Caitlyn ?! Me : Yup, negative attitude, you have your proof. Ziggs : Wtf.

T RexHasTinyArms7 votes

LOL I hate when people think being good is an excuse to be a jerk. I'm more likely to report someone who rages at a lane for going 0-6-0 while the rager carries our team to victory, than I am to report someone who goes 0-6-0 in lane and is like "sorry guys, playing really bad this game"

Joquan1 votes

don't bite the hand that feeds you

unless it's not ranked

T RexHasTinyArms1 votes

Yeah, i mean I won't complain during the game really, but that is why it is extra important to report them after the game. I don't report people very often, mostly bc when I do I want the automated system to weight the value of my report highter. Gotta have something that you use report for so that added value of not doing it often is worth something right :D

Ultimate Snipe2 votes

I'm just gonna tell you upfront why this was downvoted. Its just we haven't seen Ziggs do anything concerning a negative attitude. Just remember, sometimes don't take someone's criticism too seriously. I've been threatened for my sheer stupidity about the game and I don't know what I'm doing to hurt others.

Karlyr1 votes

He was complainning all game and defending himself for negative attitude with "I have doubled the damage of our caitlyn" means a lot concerning his attitude towards her.

People really have to have everything written eh.

N30NP4NDA1 votes

I can't even...

Valaran Nara2 votes

See, I had a few loses yesterday cause my team had no synergy. And when I say no synergy, I mean I can dive to initiate fights, but nobody follows because they're scared. When team fights do occur, it's actually 2 people caught out, and the others stay back trying to figure out what to do.

Funny thing. I don't rage. I get sarcastic and make jokes about the entire situation.

I was Shen with Pantheon, Syndra, Kayle, and Heimy.

Heimy rarely placed turrets. he went 0/16/6. We were better off without him.

Kayle did use her ult, but we just couldn't get things done because of bad plays.

Don't know about Syndra.

Panth was raging (I'll let him have it cause he had 14/14/2 KDA). He and I was just talking about how we were kinda screwed because there was nothing we could do with Nid chucking spears, so...we said fuck it. Both of us dove their team, 2 v 5. Took out 3. XD And we were just tanky enough to drive them back from our nexus all the way to their FIRST turret (yes, we couldn't take down their outer turret). Needless to say, Panth and I became friends soon after. Lol.

But yeah. Little is worse for me than when I wind up feeding, not because I'm bad (which, sometimes, I honestly am), but because my team is too scared to do anything.

Oh? Enemy team is poke heavy? Dive them. Heavy Poke comps love it when the enemy is scared. Because they can just KEEP poking you down. You can be under turret, and they hit you. I fed 4 kills trying to initiate before a teammate said they were scared to go in. So...I died for nothing. And I wound up feeding 10 times that game with only 3 kills because, well...team doesn't go into the fight. I mean, our Kat did (she raged so hard), but her KDA was 3/10 like mine. XD No team commitment is a lost game from beginning to end.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

I admit, I'm the person who stays in the back and waits. I try not to go In if my team isn't committed, so I get their consent first. Communication and understanding is important for playing and having a nice community.

Valaran Nara3 votes

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I admit, I'm the person who stays in the back and waits. I try not to go In if my team isn't committed, so I get their consent first. Communication and understanding is important for playing and having a nice community.

That's understandable, I guess. It's probably just timing.

if the person trying to intiate pings for it. Then they ping then have to WAIT for the time to do so. Even at that point, I feel as though they don't always follow or, at the least attempt to act.

I remember this one game I was Sejuani. I fed because nobody followed up. But they follow up if Annie gets a stun; however when I dive the enemy and put them all into lock, nobody acts and sits back completely. I had a moment when I stayed in base to watch what happens. The moment Annie stuns one person, everyone collapses on them, yet I'm hung to dry. Can't tell why. Probably because I was the only "frontliner".

Admittedly, I guess it's because they don't SEE that the enemy is stunned, so they just assume I died immediately.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

This is why I don't like playing without friends, either. If I can't see they've stunned someone at east they can tell me. I think you should signal them to go in when you stun so they look for that opportunity to go in. It may not always work, but when it does its effective. When I play vayne I tell my support and jungle to go in when I ult or e against the wall for the best engage.

warpenguin5552 votes

Yeah i tease people a little bit for sucking, but if i can i try to help them out. My favorite things is hearing "warpenguin you suck". Well ya, its bronze, we all suck

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

I guess teasing is fine, but you cant take it too far or everyone else will report you. Its so true though

Absolute0Chaos1 votes

GOOD post.

Fried Noob1 votes

Good post. Remember people, every one has bad games. Chances are they know they are doing badly and so yelling at then is only going to make then do worse.

T RexHasTinyArms1 votes

I think more than anything I want an auto response for when you're muted. Not one that auto responds always, but if they use my summoner name or champ name in their chat it just starts spamming super galaxy rumble audio quotes in their client for 10 seconds and is like "dude, they muted you, in the chat log."

You'd be able to never trigger it if you didn't want to so it couldn't troll you and it would be so funny to know that a ragging troll can't say this x is so trash constantly w/out getting spammed like they were playing against SGR. Possible alternatives are teemo laugh, and morgan freeman telling them they are a bad person and no one likes them so they have been muted. Rito I know you can do this. You have automated systems for curse words and racial slurs and probably for turning on our web cams to monitor "player behavior," and we all know you make enough money from this game to hire morgan freeman for like 2 sentences if you decide SGR is too horrendous a punishment to make people suffer through.

N30NP4NDA1 votes

"While you're sitting here raging and not having a life, that other person is actually doing stuff. Maybe president of a club. Star of the high school football team."

"Star of the high school football team."

Shows how much you know.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

I'm sorry, what do you mean? Anyways, I was just using that as an example.

Kagemyth1 votes

bump for positive

Angry Monster1 votes

Why are you playing rank when you know you do not have the time to work your play style? You obviously want to do what you want to do. You should play nomrals since you seem to not care. Ranked is for people that do care.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

Once you play LoL enough there comes a time where you just have to play ranked because you need variety(atleast that was for me). Ranked seems more like a casual thing in my elo because of the level I play at. I do still play norms more, and I try to avoid ranked.

Angry Monster1 votes

My point is that you know your rank after placed. You know you are not trying to improve. Why would you continue to play in a system where people are trying to advance when that is not your goal?

For variety you had 3s, aram, and dom. The setup for ranked is no different than draft except losses mean something. So going into ranked did not achieve variety.

To continue to play ranked with your attitude towards the game seems like going in expecting a loss, which is not fair to people forced to play with you.

Ultimate Snipe1 votes

When I say I not taking it seriously I mean I'm not going to deliberately try to improve my rank, but that doesn't I wont try when I play ranked. I wont throw away the game, and ill try and take it casually if I or somorne else messes up.

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