my ganks are almost never bad, you're assuming that they are, and in that situation you may be correct, but as it stands, I make plays that sometimes require the proper assistance from my laner, and if they don't provide it, I'm gonna take some farm, so that I can stay relevant.
You see, as a jungler, my ganks have to have relevance, and if they don't then I'm getting behind for nothing. to stop this from happening, You need to achieve a kill in a gank, and personally, I'm fine with walking away with the enemy having spent a summoner spell. but If I take my time to step from my jungle to help your ass, and you don't have the decency to follow up, then I will take your farm. when I said you weren't agro enough to trade, I was stipulating that you would need to be playing like that to not follow up.
I've never been whining, you came to me complaining