This is gonna sound rude, but I'm a Support main, an Enchanter main at that, so I'll give it to you straight.
Get thicker skin.
I'm so used to teammates blaming their mistakes on me. I never get recognition for the plays I make unless they are seriously next level. Meanwhile, the Katarina on my team will get a triple kill after feeding because they rolled their face on their keyboard late game, which is like Katarina's thing, and my team will be like, "KATARINA GOD!! HONOR THIS PLAYER!!!!" acting like we don't see that all the time with Katarina.
Supports in general have been consistently behind in levels and gold, so what you're going through as Jungler right now is something I sympathize with. Other roles do not care that you're behind. They do not care that you're thinking long term and not just in the moment. You just have to learn to accept that.
If I got upset with every time an Ashe who walks into hooks and cannot freeze the wave properly said, "My supp is trash," or "My supp is trolling," I'd have uninstalled a long, long, long time ago.
If you know you're playing well and making the right calls for you, then don't second guess yourself. You'll get to where you want to go. For me, that's simply ranked rewards because normals is so much more interesting than the strict meta bot lane in ranked.
The people that aren't noticing that the jungle role has changed are the ones that are bad and need to brush up on the patch notes.