Do I need to play bad to start climbing?

I've found that winning your lane hard on a champion you can't 1v9 with actually seems to be a detriment because your team becomes lax and doesn't try as hard

I rarely lose lane, but when i do I almost always win the game

Edit: to give you an actual answer, it seems to be best to hard farm and barely win lane or go even, or barely lose but maintain good farm and be effective in teamfights, picking a malphite, an amumu, a wukong, things that can deal the damage, AND set your team up to do minimal work to also deal damage, where if they did nothing you'd still go 2 for 1 or better, or be able to escape

you cannot rely on other players as you'll notice almost everyone that plays this game (statistically) is bad at it (average or below) which is an area where people do not understand wave management, experience, macro play, micro play, priority and many other things that as you pick up, each individual skill will raise you a few tiers

if u want to play bad and win games, u could play with just 1 hand while half asleep if u played klepto kayle

champion is freelo beyond belief