Most of my losses are from the "who cares, it's aram XD" excuse.
I don't want to play Summoners Rift because it's boring and way too much. I'd still run into the "who cares, it's normals XD". 3v3 is even a bit better than SR but it's still a shit show. "Who cares it's TT XDDDDD". Ranked is awful. "Who cares, it's silver my main is challenjour fuck u XDDD".
So I come to ARAM because while it's fun and all, I want to win and I spend the least amount of time in these games than I do anywhere else.. But, I'm not spending hours of my day just to mess around otherwise I'd go play bots or a custom game by myself.
So, I try that but then I run into the people that don't give a shit and cause everything to be an inevitable loss. I can't do anything about it either. These people play like total shit then say "Who cares?".
I'm starting to regret coming back to League. I can't try to win anywhere, someone always an issue with my wishes to play to win. It's sad that nobody cares. Just makes everything feel pointless.
EDIT: I don't expect any of you to understand where I'm coming from so just go right ahead with the insults and troll comments. Whatever.