my phrasing was poor. I meant wukong goes in and THEY die, or he goes in and W's out. The fights with wukong shouldn't last very long. either he all ins and gets blown up, or he has a good engage and their team falls apart. squishies hit by his ult die and anyone else runs for the hills
since you'll be rushing a jungle item, imo cinder hulk makes you too weak for too long. again, full tank wukong will do fuckall in terms of peeling in a close match. so it's better to rush warrior and then go tank, or as i do, rush warrior then hydra/BC, then either mix items like Maw or just straight up defensive items.
warrior has so much more synergy with his kit. It enhances 3/4 abilities. Cinderhulk only enhances 1 , the W. You could potentially argue it synergies with the ult since you'll be on top of them doing passive dmg in addition to the ult, but really you will see more damage added from warrior.
not saying don't go tank at all. but make yourself actually useful as an early jungler and buy warrior. Then go all the tank if you want.