If I'm the jungler and an ally laner is dead and the wave is pushing towards tower should I take it?

At the very moment I'm improving my macro play in normal games atm by playing with a bunch of people who are lower rank than me to try and get an idea of how I can pressure other lanes as a means of a jungler, the only problem is everytime they're not in lane and I go take their farm they start spam pinging and screaming at me telling me to get out of their lane, even a platinum player did this to me (I'm Gold). I can't tell you how many times I've had this happen to me, not just in normal games but in ranked games where I go and cover bot and our bot lane screams the shit out of me it's like, if this farm is getting shot by the tower then by the time you get here the whole wave will be gone.

What do I do, do I listen to these people, or should I just take the damn farm, it's their fault they died right?