Top lane has always been a lane that has been the least impactful. What made it fine for me was that it was usually fun.
When I mained top lane seasons ago, there wasn't a lot of interaction with other lanes, thus your impact was minimal. Typically, you'd bash each other around top lane, one of you would win, and then you'd group or split pushing depending on the situation.
Now there's always at least one jungler camping top lane and a lot more ranged options top lane, and that feels miserable.
The issue bot lane is that the meta is extremely strict. You want to play an engage support and an ADC with a high range. If you play anything else into that, then your margin for error is so slim because playing an engage support doesn't require thought. Sometimes you'll miss a hook, and it will land anyways. The jungler isn't going to gank bot lane if the enemy has an engage support too. That lane will be too hard to kill 3v2, and a 3v3 could end in disaster.
The only option to save bot lane, and thus save the game, in that situation is to get mid ahead.
You can't really effect that as a top laner unless you seriously go out of your way, which could do more harm than good.