For support, they have specifically told us that they changed it to count kills and assists the same for grading purposes, so 10/0/10 is exactly the same gradewise as 0/0/20 in terms of kda, so don't feel like you're buffing your grade by taking kills.
Grades are made up of all kinds of stuff, not just cs/kda, and includes things like vision score and objective participation and that kind of thing too. Doing really well in one area can offset a meh performance elsewhere, or you can be consistently good but not great everywhere and that'd also work out, as long as in the end you're in the top percentages of player performances for that champ in that role. (For related reasons, what gets an S grade today might be completely different from what gives an S grade a month ago, just because more and more performances are always coming in.)
Just be the best support you can be. So ward well, use your charm for pick offs/peel, and generally do stuff you see more conventional supports doing, just keeping in mind the kind of damage you're likely to be able to do on a supports budget.