Hard to get a place in the middle lane

Hello, I find it very hard to get a place in the middle lane, I often dodge games, because I don't see why I would play at an imposed role as if I had to work for Riot, to make league of legends run.

I also have to dodge many games where I am mid, because some mates choose to play for example Ahri top, Zyra top, Lux Apc bot, Syndra apc bot etc... Because they didn't get the lane they wanted. And it's actually a consequence of autofill and secondary role attribution.

Classical excuse : "Ye it's normal game, just have fun".

To be honest I am not having fun playing without frontline or in a full AP team, because it usually ends in a bad way : Or the enemies go MR adn we start getting outscaled, or lanes are won hard and it's going to end in an early surrender.

I know the classical answer as well : "Just buy void staff" or "Anyway, unless you are Master+, everyone builds 100% damages." OK guys, let's stop the bad faith, you perfectly know those arguments are unfounded.

The thing is that I have never got to dodge games so much, because I didn't get the role I wanted, or because I didn't want to play in a too strange team. And as well, I observe a lot of dodges that aren't coming from me. I am really surprised to see that riot cares so less about this.