What happened to the fun?

Recently i have the privilege of playing with a full premade team with friends. Wqhile playing i recently got angered and saddened about how this game has evolved into a grind to win fest. This game was my first MOBA and at the time when I satrted IO enjoyed it (about 3 years ago, the time when gnar was launched). At that time I saw some Crazy thing that would not ever occur today. I saw crazy builds and different team comps. the most memorable was the one on YouTube with Keyori (Barney now) creating a full toxic team and Uberdanger creating a team that all healed old taric. Not only that but this was a time where full ap on ad champs were not common but much more frequent.

Then riot started changing the game where those builds would not be so viable, and more and more pro league was pushed in the player's face.

At this point the game has evolved into stomp or be stomped. theres little no integrity inn the playerbase to make it fun for them or the enemy players. Recently Magikarp Used Fly expressed that even when he is playing with friends that is almost like a ordinary soloq game where you have to focus to even get a chance to win. At least with over-watch there are fan made games that make the heroes go absolutely insane. The recnet Random Game Modes have been disapointing abd probally have been the only place where fun is much more common, but where there is the same game modes every cycle it becomes summoners rift where people will just choose the op champs in that game. I miss urf because it was soo chaotic and if riot is afraid of giving us more urf then really they are afraid of giving us relief from the taxing everyday play. I also want to see more and different game modes, bring back the minion pokemon replacement game, do a dominion week, probably do a game mode where you force a champ to only build six items (make the items random). Give us some fun in the mist of seriousness.