This is how life is for me as a top laner

Most of the time I will be winning or breaking even. The bot lane or mid lane will be losing horribly. Now, since the jg is usually bad and not ganking and if he is he's underpowered. Now around lvl 8-10 the rest of the team just decided to group mid and fight there. I beg them to watch the their lanes and not do so, but they don't listen. They start losing at mid, so I have help them mid which leaves both lanes open. The other team will now split push and take turrets. I have teleport to one or the other. I beg them to please help bot lane where a split push is happening. They do not listen because they are busy fighting mid still. They don't recall either. So, they just keep doing this and I have to keep playing defense in each lane. And we slowly lose because my team won't listen to my pleas or pings. This is why I a lot of people quit this game. You can't win, with a team who won't listen, who won't work together at all, they never attack the same target, very bad map awareness. And they keep making these mistakes over and over again.