My lane is jungle
I'm not a jungle main, but I notice this issue happens fairly often. People complain that the jungler isn't ganking enough and blame them because they lost their lane.
It is not the junglers job to win your lane. He has his own lane to worry about and his lane is the jungle. You can leave your lane to gank just as easily as the jungler.
The jungler provides vision and buff control while trying to clear his jungle and stay viable throughout the match. Sure he can gank, but so can you. Stop acting like its his fault that you fed that Darius. That's on you. Learn to control your lane.
Please ward your lane. If you want the jungler to gank more then don't shove your wave, drop a pink ward so he can get into lane without being caught, and react when he pings. Help me help you.