team wont listen and loses game ?

First of all i won 13 in a row like a boss. All pantheon top/mid. I had good teams though, no afks and all players with common sense. Then i lose 5 because i legit didnt get pantheon top/mid. I took a break. I play 2 more games all the way through try harding. First game im the only one doing well and im carrying. We get barron. The whole enemy team is now up. My team goes for drag.. I PING THEM OFF IT. They ignore me. I help but sure enough enemy team comes. I ping them to attack. They keep doing drag while we all die. Yes we lose this game. Second game again im the only one besides teemo not feeding and similar late game issue. We win a team fight amazingly. We are getting turret right before inhib. I type " GET TURRET THEN BACK" i also spam the fuckk out of ping away button. They dont listen and fail trying to get inhib. Then i say " just back its not worth fighting" they all stay and continue to die one by one. So my question is. HOW THE FUCKK DO YOU CARRY THAT SHITT??? i mean literally if they listened to me in both games they would be EASY wins. EASY.