carry time

So here's the deal, I'm an ADC main and even after the patch i still main jinx. While ADC is my favorite role by far I do find it a bit hard to really carry a team as I am essentially just an easy kill if I try to split late game which really sucks. While I will not, and honestly probably could not, stop maining ADC I need a hard carry who can split push and really impact late game or at least some advice. As a foot note I am writing this after a totally preventable loss and just wanted to get some advice and opinions as it is painful to push my lane back to its inhib n watch it sit there unguarded for 30 mins of gameplay, 20 of those at half health, only after decimating my lane btw and then not being able to take it as I would die if caught out.

Thanks in advance for any advice or tips you can provide!