How do I not suck at Lols?
I've been playing this game for about a month now, mainly because a friend of mine introduced it to me. It isn't my usual cup of tea, but there's something that I experienced while playing this game that got me a little hooked on it. Something about the satisfaction of mowing down minions for gold, hiding in bushes only to ambush and quickly take out enemy champions, and big gang fights where I have to move smart and dodge powerful skillshots. Plus, it's just a way for me and my friend to hang out and have fun together. But I keep sucking for some reason.
He keeps trying to teach me the basics. Like he recommended that I play as Annie to learn the basic function of various types of abilities and buffs, and Morgana to learn something something and skillshots. He also taught me something called "gauging", I think, where I use a basic attack or W on an enemy minion to see how much damage that attack does so I know when to hit them to collect gold. He also taught me how to optimize my settings, to not run from enemies in a team fight when I'm close to dying because I'm probably am not going to get away alive anyways, and some other things.
I keep getting hung up on things. Like, when to go assist an ally champion, and when to stay on my lane even when they ask for help. What role or lane I'm supposed to be working with the champion I chose. Which champions need to hide behind minions and allies, and which ones go up front. How to tell when I should stand my ground and fight to the death, and when I can and should probably try to get away to save the enemy from getting another score. And other things like that.
I also keep getting distracted and lose focus on what's going on around me when a bunch of action starts happening on the screen, but I don't know why. It's like, in big team fights, I can't even SEE what my champion is doing, and even when I hit my ult, sometimes it doesn't work, and I can't tell why, because all I see on the screen are a bunch of flashing lights and health bars.
I also notice that I'm not very good at multitasking. Not only am I not good at it, but I don't even like it. I still have a hard time trying to accurately click and time multiple moves and skills, while also keeping awareness of what's happening on the map ("map awareness"), while doing something else.
I also notice that I often lock up and sort of do nothing or keep making stupid mistakes when I feel like there's pressure or that there's something at stake. Some games, I do extremely well, but other games, especially when I'm tired (or at least thinking that I'm tired), I seem to have a harder time figuring out what to do, and I feel like I am letting my teammates and friend down when I feed the enemy with these mistakes (i.e., running into gank parties, over-extending and getting hit by the turret or enemy champions, getting too aggressive with squishy champions), and then he starts asking if I have forgotten everything he taught me. So much that I almost start to wonder if I have some mental disability.
I think I just need to practice more and not take the game so seriously, but for some reason, I still find myself getting tense and tilted on games that start off bad. Does anyone have tips or advice on some of these things? Game-wise or psychologically.