Let's get off the items bandwagon
I hate to say it, but the system the way it is is how it's going to be.
If you feel like items are causing your losses and you win more than 50% of the time, then all you're doing is identifying the obstacle you need to overcome to win more than 50%.
And if you feel that way and lose more than 50% of the time, well, the people in option A, who are also in this conversation, put most of the burden on you to win more than lose so you can see issues a little better. We're not all on the same page it sounds like.