How to kill a troll: With kindness

Warlord Zudane·8/14/2016, 2:41:45 PM·73 votes·9,446 views

So, it sounds stupid but hear it out: There's an old thing I've heard that I always loved which is killing someone with kindness. When someone is lashing out at you they normally want a reaction. If you react negatively then they will continue because it felt good, if you don't react then they will continue because they are getting annoyed, but if you react positively then you can actually get them to stop.

I'm not saying be passive aggressive, that's still a negative reaction. Simply be positive. Ignore their negativity, continue talking with your team and being positive. If your team isn't being positive then use /all chat (I'm sure if the game is going that bad you have some down time while dead) and joke around with the other team. Yea, they are the enemy! but it's just a damned game they just want to play and have fun too. It's being a good sport, because out of 10 people in the game I'm sure you can find at least 2 of them that are positive (you + 1).

I see a lot of toxicity in the game, but it's everywhere - here on the boards and what not too. Too many people that forget that people have feelings, or people that have been abused by someone else and in turn are passing on it again. The cycle of rage and anger needs to stop somewhere, I'm just hoping to start a seed for that.

And, if you yourself start to get angry at the game, don't take it out on your team or you're the one that people are complaining about. No, I don't care if others are doing it too that doesn't mean it's acceptable to do and no I don't care if they ARE feeding. Unless the person is intentionally running up and dying without trying to fight back or escape they are just playing badly and that could be for any reason. Remember that thing above? Stay positive and help them out. You CAN turn around a game when someone is doing poorly because one person or one lane doing poorly will not make the entire game a guaranteed loss.

Seriously, if each person adds a little positivity then we can raise the overall attitude. Have more fun, chat more and make jokes! It's a game for crying out loud!

101 Comments

RiotBilby8/14/2016, 2:54:30 PM66 votes

This is great advice

Also when I read this in my head it's all in Lux voice

Oleandervine8/14/2016, 4:24:02 PM8 votes

I kill it like this: http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/992/407/776.jpg If you play ignorant, it actually helps diffuse them a lot.

Raja Chachki8/14/2016, 7:17:54 PM5 votes

Isn't this a Selena Gomez song? I didn't know she endorsed League!

Anyways, yeah this tends to work for me. In general, I love to joke around with the other team, and it can really help lighten the mood when our team is doing badly.

R FLASH XD8/14/2016, 4:15:32 PM4 votes

Or make them snap till they get banned

WacingTheFind8/14/2016, 9:24:20 PM3 votes

GL killing a trundle with kindness.

On a more serious note, I agree.

redfeenix8/14/2016, 3:07:04 PM3 votes

I agree with you 100%, me and me friends have this attitude all the time. At the end of the day, just remember its a damn video game. Its nothing to lose your shit over.

The worst thing thing though is having a negative/defeatest attitude.

I'm really not bothered by hate speech, but if you're gonna constantly be negative and not try, thats really dissapointing for me. However, I havnt had to report a player in a LONG time.

I think overall either the community is becoming better, or we've banned out all the toxic players. Stay cool League players [slayer-pantheon-thumbs]

SkyBlade798/15/2016, 2:29:39 AM3 votes

Yeah, listen to Selena Gomez, it works quite well.

3ofGot40ve8/15/2016, 1:03:52 AM2 votes

I find it kind of Ironic...

As I was reading this, I accepted a queue, and my support Caitlyn said she was going to troll. She then banned my top laners preference (wukong) and asked him to uninstall and neck himself. I tried to use the tactic I had just read. It went as follows:

Cait Supp: I'm trolling Cait Supp: Ez Me: Just have fun and do your best Cait Supp: STFU Retard kat main Cait Supp Bans Wukong Me: Hey (insert toplaner's username here), just pick your next best champion and you can carry No problem! ^_^ Top Laner Dodges

Relief.

Elikain8/14/2016, 9:50:12 PM1 votes

People who rage for no reason don't deserve to be in a two way communication. I mute them from the first sentence they utter in this fashion because i don't really have to listen to them whine nor i have the time to sweet-talk them into submission and reverse psychology them into working with the team again.

Your way probably works but it's for people with patience to talk to the trolls, i am really focused on the game when i play and i seriously don't want to buddy buddy them if they're dicks.

ZAggie28/14/2016, 11:34:21 PM1 votes

What if they take vayne jg with heal/flash? Rage away? ;)

TheOldOneLT8/15/2016, 9:52:43 PM1 votes

Okay , but what should I do when I play jungler, top dies and asks me to hang myself. My bot lane - feeding, mid - feeding, everyone blames the jungler, cuz I can't carry their lanes for them, followed by "Report Vi" in after-game chat. FeelsGoodMan.

Morality Coach8/14/2016, 6:06:49 PM1 votes

Honestly I'd throw if someone acted like that and I was in a bad mood.

I can climb if people are gonna be toxic or not, don't patronize me with the positive Sally stuff.