PSA: this is just a game

I Main Swain··22 votes·1,144 views

for some reason this seems to be something people dont understand. in almost every single game theres at LEAST 1 person on one of the teams who's just horrendously toxic at some point. i cant tell you how many times people have told me to kill myself, wished i get cancer, told me im garbage and should uninstall, and just about every single other insult you can possibly think of just for making a poor play or building an item someone thinks shouldnt be built. people get so worked up and angry about this game and make it seem as if everything is a personal offense. so, for those of you for whom this isnt perfectly clear, THIS IS JUST A GAME. its meant to be fun. its meant to be difficult. its meant to force people to become better. its not an excuse to treat people like dirt over something so menial. i dont understand why people cant just grow up my goodness. if its at the point where you take the game so seriously and so personally that youre willing to tell someone to kill themself or wish they get raped or anything like that, you need to quit playing

edit: i should add since a lot of people are making this about me that im not talking about just myself, although i did use examples from my own experience. i recognize that im not a great player, but thats entirely beside the point. im sick of seeing my jungle flame mid lane for not rushing morello or other trivial crap like that. this is just a game guys, all getting angry and raging will do is give you and everyone else a worse experience playing a game thats meant to be fun. if youre upset that someone is doing bad, POLITELY advise them on the correct path. if someone flames you, mute them, dont flame back

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ShinkoMinori4 votes

Maybe you should stop going 0/8 and 2/10 every game

LiteUpSketchers5 votes

and here we see experiment X, he's a little different.

2Charmnot2Charm1 votes

to be fair, shinko has a point about the op dying a lot for no reason.

https://i.imgur.com/DNnhxOM.png

But i guess it doesn't really matter since i'm sure this is normal for everyone in low elo.

I Main Swain1 votes

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to be fair, shinko has a point about the op dying a lot for no reason.

https://i.imgur.com/DNnhxOM.png

But i guess it doesn't really matter since i'm sure this is normal for everyone in low elo.

no i dont deny that im definitely not high elo material, ive been playing for like 6 years now and ive never gotten out of silver, and for whatever reason whenever i play with friends i almost exclusively play like trash lol (ive been playing mostly with my brother and brother in law the last little bit). as a side note ill add that a few of those games (like the galio one) i started out ballin but late game they had better organization or more teamfighting power or whatever it may be aka not dying for no reason, ofc though that isnt a good reason to feed by itself. regardless, how well you do in a game doesnt impact whether or not you deserve flame.

I Main Swain1 votes

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Maybe you should stop going 0/8 and 2/10 every game

or, consider this, maybe you could recognize that this is just a game and no matter how bad someone does at it it will always be just a game. i can understand getting annoyed or mad, but tell your diary all about it later. dont be a douche, plain and simple.

ShinkoMinori2 votes

Or take some responsibility and recognize that you deserve some of the flame

I Main Swain1 votes

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Or take some responsibility and recognize that you deserve some of the flame

the only time someone deserves flame is when theyre being a douche, trolling their team, or inting. theres a huge difference between taking responsibility for making a poor decision and saying you actually deserve flame. besides, if you actually had bothered to look at my match history like you pretended you did, while i have several where i did poorly i also have several where i did really well. normally my score is pretty average. all that aside, im not making a "wah stop teasing me" thread, im talking about the level of toxicity that you apparently support in league being atrocious and unacceptable.

ShinkoMinori1 votes

The way I see it, if you feed or ruin the game by making it a 4v5 or 4v6 then you can't complain whats coming to you. Respect the effort other people put in this game and suck it up.

I Main Swain1 votes

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The way I see it, if you feed or ruin the game by making it a 4v5 or 4v6 then you can't complain whats coming to you. Respect the effort other people put in this game and suck it up.

your logic is complete crap. first of all, youre saying that doing poorly is justifiably responded to by being verbally abusive. second, you talk as if people who do poorly are just picking their noses with one hand while mildly tapping the keyboard with their other to play the game. just because someone did something they shouldnt have or fed doesnt mean they arent trying. ive had TONS of games where my team or some players on my team played horrendously bad and because of that it was a completely one sided loss and yet we still had more fun than i usually have when i win. its not the player who does bad that ruins games. its the players who follow your philosophy and use someone playing poorly as an excuse to throw a tantrum. give me a single way that doing that helps anybody, tell me how telling someone to kill themself will improve yours and everyone else's experience in a match.

maybe you should respect the effort other people put in this game and suck it up

DizTheGreat4 votes

lol i was just told to uninstall last game. im on this section of boards cause i just got flamed so hard in a normal game, that i decided to simply leave the game. like you said, its supposed to be fun. instead im getting spammed with ???? and insults. lovely community. oh also IM the one getting punished for leaving the game -.-

Mösentristana2 votes

Do you mean your atrocious 2/11/3 Ryze game (apparently on mid) and with 129 CS? (Top: 201, ADC: 229). You said it was your last game, and together with your post both date back 6 hours ago.

Yes, you deserved that, probably yelling "ME MID! MID MID MID", then feed because you suck, talking like "Iss juss a gaim maaaan" (judging from your attitude) and then even ragequit, having the lowest kill particapation. And then, it's "the toxic community". Get over yourself, man. I wonder how you could become Gold.

Look, I am trapped with trashnoobs like you that troll, feed and suck in normals and then cover in self-pity, but at least I admit I am toxic and I will be toxic as long as this game does not provide fun "matches" (but rather 2/11 Solo laners like you that ragequit).

IcyPepper3 votes

Look, I am trapped with trashnoobs like you that troll, feed and suck in normals and then cover in self-pity, but at least I admit I am toxic and I will be toxic as long as this game does not provide fun "matches" (but rather 2/11 Solo laners like you that ragequit).

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I will be toxic as long as the game does not provide fun matches

Herp derp, talk about a double standard. You do realize that a toxic experience will ruin other players' fun, right?

But it's all about you, I guess. Nothing is ever your fault, it's RIto's.

StairCasexd3 votes

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Do you mean your atrocious 2/11/3 Ryze game (apparently on mid) and with 129 CS? (Top: 201, ADC: 229). You said it was your last game, and together with your post both date back 6 hours ago.

Yes, you deserved that, probably yelling "ME MID! MID MID MID", then feed because you suck, talking like "Iss juss a gaim maaaan" (judging from your attitude) and then even ragequit, having the lowest kill particapation. And then, it's "the toxic community". Get over yourself, man. I wonder how you could become Gold.

Look, I am trapped with trashnoobs like you that troll, feed and suck in normals and then cover in self-pity, but at least I admit I am toxic and I will be toxic as long as this game does not provide fun "matches" (but rather 2/11 Solo laners like you that ragequit).

I don't know why you're hiding behind a smurf on the boards. Comment on your actual account if you're going to make dick posts like this. You're the best lol player, so I don't see why you wouldn't let us see your match history.

But on a serious note, what you're saying is dumb, you're going to flame instead of trying to be useful, you already lost the match by tilting. Especially in normals, normals are the place people go to try new champion or unfamiliar roles, so advice is useful... For example: I main Kat and lots of people who I run into playing Kat aren't Kat mains or experienced in the role, it's happened that our 3rd time Kat tried to roam bot and used qew (terrible) and everytime they did that they failed, I just told them to use ewqer and suprise suprise, they were actually useful. Also telling ekkos to not build morello >. >, a lot more useful than calling the ekko a noob or calling the Kat that starts Dorans ring a noob. Flaming doesn't do anything.

ÈvilMorty3 votes

In a norms game I dont care as much as it is just a game and in norms i play to have fun or try/practice new champions. However, in something like ranked I want to win and gain elo so yes I get mad when people go 0-11, afk or troll in game

IcyPepper2 votes

i cant tell you how many times people have told me to kill myself, wished i get cancer, told me im garbage and should uninstall, and just about every single other insult you can possibly think of just for making a poor play or building an item someone thinks shouldnt be built.

Yeah, but if you do stuff like that for people just being bad at the game, even if they are 0-11, there's really no excuse.

Hoodzilla2 votes

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In a norms game I dont care as much as it is just a game and in norms i play to have fun or try/practice new champions. However, in something like ranked I want to win and gain elo so yes I get mad when people go 0-11, afk or troll in game

People have bad games, so there's no point. People who deliberately set out to troll you want to rile you up, so getting angry is giving them exactly what they want. So getting upset about it either way serves no purpose.

AninLegions7773 votes

Keep this confined to Normals and don't bring it to ranked, then I'll agree with you.

Stars Shaper2 votes

As long as this isn't a statement to justify a lazy attitude, unwillness to win or an attempt to tilt other ppl I agree.

The issue comes when there is this mantra used as this is enough to even troll your team mates.

Despìca Bìll2 votes

Firstly, I agree with you, assuming you're not one of those lovely people who gets high and then plays ranked.

To offer the other side's perspective, when you make a bad play, build a weird item, pick an off champ, no one is looking at you and thinking, "Oh, yeah, this guy is usually fine, he just tried something new/made a mistake/is practicing a new champ. They're seeing every other person in their last ten games that has done the same thing as you, with the same results. In their heads, you are not a separate person with your own scorecard. You are the same person as the last ADC Janna who built two pairs of boots. The overreaction you're seeing is frequently all of those games' worth of frustration getting dumped on you, not you yourself.

Is it cool/fair/justified? Absolutely not. Is there a reason? Yes, there is.

Pandemic Punch1 votes

And if you respond to people like this, you get punished and they roam free. I feel that pain right now.

It sucks too because if you don't respond then report them afterward, it never gets noticed and they always go unpunished.

ChemicalBuster1 votes

For many of your games, your feeding a lot. That's probably why your getting a lot of toxicity. And also, many players play this game in hopes of achieving something (idk what though probably pro play).

StairCasexd1 votes

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For many of your games, your feeding a lot. That's probably why your getting a lot of toxicity. And also, many players play this game in hopes of achieving something (idk what though probably pro play).

Just winning or ranking up, like in all games, though in mobas specifically, there are a lot of people who think they're the next faker or something, I run into people who think they're way better than they actually are, like some bronze 3 Jax in a normal game where we were all losing Lane and our jungle wasn't ganking and this guy says he has the skill of a masters player but is held back by trash teammates. Or people who put "SKT" or "TSM" in front of their names and rq when they lose Lane to you or anyone on your team

mikemcparty1 votes

Many players play in hopes of playing professionally? Jesus Christ... At this current point in time, if you are not in challenger Elo, you will never play professionally.

SwiftSwifties 1 votes

i got the ban hammer for talking to enemy team despite securing us every objective in the game.

I Main Swain1 votes

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i got the ban hammer for talking to enemy team despite securing us every objective in the game.

what does securing objectives have to do with that? thats literally entirely unrelated, riot doesnt review bans based on takedowns deaths and cs.

mikemcparty2 votes

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i got the ban hammer for talking being a jerk to the enemy team, while securing us every objective in the game.

HanSwift1 votes

This is so like me! That's true though. It's just a game that's why I still dont understand how they act-as if their life is...this IDK how to explain myself XD

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