Who's at fault?

I'm shaco and asking for a leash. Placed first box on golems at 50 seconds and 2'nd on red buff. At this point i've asked for a leash twice but my bot lane naut has decide he want's to bush camp bot lane and told me "You're shaco you don't need a leash", My Miss fourtune decide that the naut was correct in saying I am not worth of a leash because I am playing shaco. I proceed to get upset don't type anything except "you'll regret this choice" or something and proceed to mute the naut and his duo queue. 2 Minutes in first blood enemy bot lane and my naut is dead in river, meanwhile I struggle with golems. Am I at fault for expecting a bot lane after being asked to help TO HELP or is he at fault for being ignorant and not a team player? I'm asking because half way through the game I noticed the enemy team talking to someone I couldn't see low and behold it's naut asking for the enemy team to report me, I'm positive I didn't type anything to get myself in trouble because I knew from the start that they were already tilted about being in their support role and that there was no way for me to get them to help me, but i'd like to know a better way to handle people like this. I muted him and his friend but for some reason the top laner agree'd with the naut saying I deserved to be banned and that he would report me for "over reacting" at not getting help level 1. When in reality all I did was mute the duo and continue to struggle through my jungle. Admittedly I didn't try and I did play the game half assed but not to the point that I was ignoring people intentionally feeding or BM'ing the team. I personally find it hard within myself to play with people who act like this, at the end of the day we're all here to play the game and people who act the way the naut did belong less in the community then the people who BM.